Tell me something you assumed about me that turned out to be wrong.
Undercurrent
For two people who want to get closer. Three levels; take turns; you may pass once per level.
How to play
- Two people. Take turns drawing; the drawer answers first, honestly.
- You may pass once per level. Say so out loud.
- Finish a level before going deeper. Level three is the point.
Level 1
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Tell me something you assumed about me that turned out to be wrong.
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When did you first realize we were actually close?
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What kind of person do you think I'm drawn to?
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What's the first thing you'd warn a stranger about me?
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What did you expect me to ask you by now?
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What do you wish I would ask you about more often?
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What did you notice about me first?
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Guess what I was like at fifteen.
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Which of us would handle bad news better? Say why.
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What do you think I'm proud of?
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What do I talk about more than I realise?
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What do you think I'm bad at?
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What do you think my family is like?
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Tell me what you thought this would be like before we sat down.
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What do I seem to care about that other people ignore?
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Which of my habits have you quietly picked up?
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Have you ever pretended to agree with me? About what?
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What do you wish I'd stop apologising for?
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Tell me about the last time you were relieved to see me.
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What was the first detail about me that caught your attention?
Level 2
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When have I made you uncomfortable without meaning to?
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Which subject do we both steer around?
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Tell me the last thing you swallowed instead of saying to me.
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Have I ever hurt you without knowing it?
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Is there something you've been waiting for me to notice?
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When do you feel most misunderstood by me?
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When do you feel like you have to perform for me?
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What do you envy about my life?
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What part of your life have you kept me out of?
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What do you forgive in me that you wouldn't forgive in anyone else?
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What do you think I'll never understand about you?
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Tell me how you talk about me when I'm not there.
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What do you rely on me for that you rarely admit?
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If we drifted apart, what do you think would have caused it?
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Tell me one thing about my face you've looked at more than once.
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When did you last lie to me, even a small one?
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Do you think I know how much I matter to you?
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What do you think I'd say is the hardest thing about knowing me?
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Do you compete with me? Over what?
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Tell me something you've wanted to ask me but thought was too much.
Level 3
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What do you hold back from telling me?
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What do you need from me that you've never asked for?
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Tell me about a time I disappointed you and you said nothing.
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What do you think I'm afraid you'll find out?
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What would change between us if you were completely honest with me?
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What have you forgiven me for without telling me?
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When did you almost walk away from me?
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What did knowing me cost you?
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What have you been afraid to tell me because it could change us?
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What do you need from me that you hate needing?
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When have you felt furthest from me while we were together?
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Have you ever doubted that I truly cared about you?
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When have you wanted me to choose you?
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Where do you think I have failed to really know you?
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When have you felt closest to me?
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What version of me do you like least?
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When have you wanted more from me than I gave?
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Do you think I love you more, or you me?
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What do you protect me from?
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What topic do you avoid with me because my answer might hurt?