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  1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, who would you want as a dinner guest?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 2 · escape 5 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · priority · present · solo · verdict · people, imagination
  2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · ambition
  3. Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · process · present · solo · story · identity · habits
  4. What would a perfect day look like for you?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 2 · escape 5 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · priority · present · solo · fact · home · pleasure
  5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · music, play
  6. If you could live to ninety and keep either the mind or the body of a thirty-year-old for the last sixty years, which would you choose?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality, body · ageing, choice
  7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · affect · future · solo · feeling · mortality · death
  8. What three things do you and your partner seem to have in common?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 2 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · relational · fact · partner, noticing
  9. What in your life are you most grateful for?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 1 · escape 5 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · priority · present · solo · feeling · gratitude
  10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · position · past · relational · story · family · family, childhood
  11. In four minutes, what is your life story, in as much detail as you can manage?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · story, self
  12. If you could wake up tomorrow with any one quality or ability, what would it be?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · priority · future · solo · verdict · identity · wish, self
  13. What's something small you're unreasonably good at?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · fact · identity · skills, play
  14. What song do you know every word to, and who taught it to you?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · music, family
  15. When did you last laugh so hard you couldn't make a sound?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · body · humor, memory
  16. What did you assume was normal in your family until you met other families?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, home · family, childhood
  17. Which parent are you more like, and how do you feel about that?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · feeling · family, identity · family, identity
  18. What's the worst thing about being the age you are now?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · mortality, body, identity · age, time
  19. What did you love doing before you cared whether you were good at it?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity, failure · childhood, play
  20. What did you want to be when you were eight, and what happened to that idea?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · work, identity · childhood, work
  21. Tell your partner about something you achieved that nobody made a fuss about.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · pride, achievement
  22. If someone who knew you as a child met you now, what change would surprise them most?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · change, childhood
  23. If you could replay one ordinary day from your past, what would you be doing?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · past · solo · story · home, identity · memory, nostalgia
  24. What do you wish you had figured out ten years ago?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · past · solo · verdict · failure, identity · regret, lessons
  25. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 1 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · priority · future · solo · verdict · future, self
  26. Is there something you have dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · story · failure, identity · dreams, avoidance
  27. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 1 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · priority · past · solo · verdict · work, identity · pride
  28. What do you value most in a friendship?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 1 · escape 5 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, values
  29. What is your most treasured memory?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 1 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · experience · past · solo · story · memory
  30. What is your most terrible memory?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 2 · escape 2 · specific 1 · exposes 5 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality, failure · memory, pain
  31. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are living now? Why?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality · death, choices
  32. What does friendship mean to you?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 1 · escape 5 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship
  33. What roles do love and affection play in your life?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 1 · escape 4 · specific 1 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · love
  34. Taking turns, what are five good things about your partner?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · partner, praise
  35. How close and warm is your family? Was your childhood happier than most people's?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · verdict · family · family, childhood
  36. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · feeling · family · family, mother
  37. Who believed in you before you'd done anything to earn it?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, friendship · family, support
  38. What are you most afraid of becoming?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · affect · future · solo · verdict · failure, identity · fear, identity
  39. What did your family argue about most when you were growing up?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, money · family, childhood
  40. Tell your partner about a friendship that ended. Do you know why it did?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friendship, loss
  41. Tell your partner what you noticed about them in the first minute, and whether you were right.Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · impressions, connection
  42. What's something you've been carrying this year that you haven't said out loud to anyone?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · story · failure, identity · secrets, burden
  43. How is your relationship with your family different from how it looks from the outside?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · family, perception
  44. Tell your partner about a time you let someone down.Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · regret, failure
  45. Describe a time you disappointed someone whose opinion mattered to you.Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · shame, family
  46. Which compliment do you have the hardest time believing?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · self-image, praise
  47. Which regret still affects the way you treat people now?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · regret, relationships
  48. What are three true statements that begin with "we"? For instance, "We are both in this room feeling…"Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 1 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · partner, noticing
  49. Finish this sentence: "I wish I had someone with whom I could share…"Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · feeling · identity, friendship · longing
  50. If you were going to become close friends with your partner, what would be important for them to know?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · future · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · partner, honesty
  51. What do you like about your partner? Be very honest this time, saying things you might not say to someone you have just met.Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · partner, honesty
  52. What is an embarrassing moment from your life?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · shame, story
  53. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · fact · body, identity · tears
  54. What do you like about your partner already?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · partner, praise
  55. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · faith, identity · humour, limits
  56. If you were to die this evening with no chance to speak to anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · feeling · mortality, friendship, family · death, regret
  57. Your house, with everything you own in it, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you can make one final dash for a single item. What would it be? Why?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · possessions, choice
  58. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · family, death
  59. What personal problem would you like your partner's advice on? Then let them tell you how you seem to feel about it.Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · process · present · relational · feeling · identity · partner, help
  60. Who in your life do you love but can't be honest with? What would you say if you could?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family, friendship · family, honesty
  61. What have you wanted to ask me but decided was too personal?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · curiosity, restraint
  62. What are you worried I may have already judged you for?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · judgment, fear
  63. What would make you pull away from me, even if you liked me?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · process · future · relational · verdict · friendship · distance, fear
  64. What feeling about me are you least comfortable saying aloud?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · feeling · identity · feelings, admission
  65. What have you already trusted me with that you did not expect to say?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · identity · trust, disclosure
  66. If we became close, what would be hardest for you to tell me?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · affect · future · relational · verdict · identity · closeness, secrecy
  67. What do you wish someone had noticed when you were struggling?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · past · relational · story · failure, identity · struggle, care
  68. What will you remember about this conversation tomorrow morning?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · identity · memory, reflection
  69. What do you want from me that you'd never ask for?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · partner, need
  70. Tell me where you think I am loneliest.Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · loneliness, perception
  71. What do you do to get people to like you?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · approval, self-image
  72. Who are you lying to the most? What is the lie?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · secrets, honesty, life
  73. What did you once think would fix your life?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · hope, disillusionment
  74. Which job did you have in your family?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · family, roles
  75. Which story about yourself do you tell too often?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · story · identity · self-image, habits
  76. What do you pretend to enjoy, and who are you pretending for?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · pretending, self-image
  77. Tell your partner about the person who shaped you most, and what they'd make of you now.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · story · identity, family · family, identity
  78. What lie do your parents still believe about you?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · story · family · family, lies
  79. What's the longest you've ever walked in one go, and what were you thinking about?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body · walking, outdoors
  80. Which room in any house you've lived in do you miss?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · affect · past · solo · verdict · home · home, memory
  81. What did you hide from your parents as a teenager?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, secrets
  82. What do people praise you for that you don't care about?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, work · praise, self-image
  83. What did you lie about for years before anyone caught it?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · lies, history
  84. Who from your childhood do you wish you could thank now?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · verdict · family, friendship · gratitude, childhood
  85. Which room from your childhood can you still walk through in your head? Who's in it?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · home, family · memory, home
  86. What did you quit that you still think about?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, work · regret, choices
  87. What did you have to teach yourself because nobody showed you?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · family, identity · growing-up, self-reliance
  88. How would we have got along if we'd met five years ago?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · friendship · timing, connection
  89. What did you get through that you've never called hard?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · survival
  90. Which apology do you still owe?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · guilt, relationships
  91. Who do you miss who is still alive?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · story · friendship, family · loss, distance
  92. What's the closest you've come to giving up?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, mortality · despair, survival
  93. What were you taught to do with anger?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · past · relational · story · family, identity · anger, family
  94. Who do you owe an apology you may never give?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · failure, friendship · apology, regret
  95. What did your family refuse to talk about?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, silence
  96. What question did you hope I would not ask you today?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · partner, fear, secrets
  97. At what moment tonight did you nearly not answer honestly?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · partner, honesty
  98. Who saw you at your worst and stayed?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · loyalty, love
  99. What did I say tonight that landed harder than I realised?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · partner, impact
  100. When did you first make a choice your family would not have made for you?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, identity · family, independence
  101. Who did you stop resenting? What changed?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · resentment, change
  102. What have you done out of loyalty that you would not do again?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · loyalty, regret
  103. Who do you miss even though having them in your life was hard?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · story · friendship · longing, relationships
  104. How do you fight when you know you are losing an argument?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity · arguments, self-awareness
  105. Whose death brought you some relief? Have you ever admitted that?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · verdict · mortality, family · death, guilt
  106. What has loving someone cost you?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · love, sacrifice
  107. Who would tell the truth about you at your funeral?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship · death, honesty
  108. Which of your parents do you still want something from? What is it?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · story · family · parents, longing
  109. Who do you love out of duty?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, friendship · love, obligation
  110. What did your last breakup teach you about your own cruelty?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, sex · breakups, character
  111. Whose pain do you feel responsible for?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · story · family, friendship · guilt, responsibility
  112. Who did you walk away from when they needed you?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · guilt, abandonment
  113. When did you know you could no longer go home?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · home, family · home, belonging
  114. Tell me something true about me you've worked out in the last hour.Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · partner, perception
  115. What about me reminds you of someone you've loved?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · love, memory
  116. Which answer of mine changed your mind about me?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · perception, surprise
  117. Tell me what you think I need to hear tonight.Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · care, insight
  118. What do you think I am pretending not to care about?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · pretense, perception
  119. Ask me for something you rarely ask anyone for.Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · feeling · identity · request, trust
  120. What do you guess is the hardest thing about being in a relationship with me?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · sex, identity · partner, relationships, perception
  121. What was your worst summer job, and how long did you last?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work, youth
  122. What is the worst advice you took?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · advice, mistakes
  123. Tell your partner about a weird neighbor you grew up next to.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · home · neighbors, childhood, story
  124. Tell your partner about a neighbour you'll never forget.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · home · neighbours, stories
  125. When was the first time you talked back to an adult and won?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, identity · rebellion, childhood
  126. Tell your partner about the weirdest place you have ever slept.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · body · travel, sleep, story
  127. Who got away with the most in your family, and how did they do it?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, siblings
  128. Who taught you to drive, and how did that go?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family · driving, family
  129. What did you vow to never do for money again?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · money, work · money, regret
  130. What's the first job you ever had, and what did it teach you about people?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work, first job
  131. Which town or city would you never live in again, and what's wrong with it?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · solo · verdict · home · cities, opinions
  132. What have you been given too much credit for?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · solo · verdict · work, failure · praise, honesty
  133. Which scar on you has the best story behind it?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body · body, stories
  134. Which trip went badly at the time and makes a good story now?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · travel, mishaps
  135. Who do you pretend to like, and why?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship, work · social, deception
  136. Tell your partner the story behind one of your scars.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · body · body, story, past
  137. What do you buy just to feel safe?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · fact · money, body · money, security
  138. Where did your family go on holiday when you were small, and what did you do all day?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, home · childhood, travel
  139. What would your twelve-year-old find embarrassing about your life now?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, failure · growing up, humor
  140. Which of your childhood friends do you wish you had treated better?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · childhood, regret
  141. Who did you stop talking to without ever telling them why?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · ghosting, relationships
  142. When did you realize an apology would not fix what happened?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · apology, harm
  143. What did you give up on because you knew you were not good enough?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity, work · failure, dreams, self-worth
  144. When did you first realize you had power over someone?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, failure · power, relationships
  145. Who gets the worst of you because you trust them to stay?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · family, friendship · trust, relationships
  146. Who knows the worst thing about you?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · secrets, shame
  147. When have you felt like a guest in your own family?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, identity, home · family, belonging
  148. When did money first make you feel different from the people around you?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · money, identity · money, belonging
  149. What do you miss from the life you chose not to live?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · past · solo · feeling · identity, work · choices, longing
  150. Which piece of your family history is hardest to explain?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, history
  151. When have you stayed too long because leaving felt like failure?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, work · failure, choices
  152. Who do you let treat you badly? Why them?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family, identity · boundaries, relationships
  153. When has your body frightened you?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body, mortality · body, fear
  154. When has being wanted led you to make a bad choice?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure, identity · desire, choices
  155. When have you stayed because leaving felt like failure?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, work · leaving, failure
  156. What have you forgiven that you swore you never would?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · faith, friendship, family · forgiveness
  157. Who taught you the most about love through a bad example?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, identity · love, influence
  158. Tell me the last time you asked someone to stay.Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · love, need
  159. What do you wish you wanted less?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity, money, sex · desire, control
  160. Which of your habits ruins things for you most often?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · verdict · failure, identity · flaws, self-awareness, habits
  161. How are you a disappointment to your family?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, failure, identity · family, shame, expectations
  162. What is the hardest sentence you have ever said out loud to someone?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, friendship, family · honesty, memory
  163. Who do you miss that you will never speak to again?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family, mortality · grief, loss, past
  164. When did you learn that love could be withdrawn?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, failure · love, rejection
  165. Who did you hurt the most? How did you justify it to yourself?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · guilt, past, regret
  166. Which goodbye changed the way you love people?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, friendship · goodbye, love
  167. Whose funeral are you most afraid of attending?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family, friendship · mortality, fear, family
  168. Who was the first person you lost? What did that do to you?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, family · death, grief
  169. If you could have one more conversation with someone who's dead, who, and what's your first sentence?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, family · death, love
  170. What do you know about yourself that keeps you awake?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · solo · verdict · failure, identity · fear, self
  171. Who do you want in the room at the end of your life?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family, friendship · death, love
  172. What would a good death look like for you?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · future · solo · verdict · mortality · death, meaning
  173. Say what you would miss if we never spoke again.Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · affect · future · relational · feeling · friendship, mortality · loss, connection
  174. What do you hope I think of you now?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · feeling · identity · impression, hope
  175. Which loss changed your everyday life most?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality, family · loss, grief
  176. What would you want me to say if you were dying?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · future · relational · feeling · mortality · death, comfort
  177. If this were our last conversation, how would you want it to end?Fast Friends · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · feeling · mortality · goodbye, connection
  178. Tell your partner about a coworker who knew how to make a shift go faster.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work
  179. How do you behave when someone tries to look after you?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity · care, love
  180. Which friendship are you keeping alive on your own?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, effort
  181. Were you raised with religion, and what's left of it now?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · faith, family · faith, family
  182. What got you in the most trouble at school?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · family, school
  183. Tell your partner about the worst date you ever sat all the way through.Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · sex, romance
  184. Which false impression of you have you allowed people to keep?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · verdict · identity · identity, appearance
  185. What do you hope you never have to do again?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · future · solo · story · work, failure, body · dread, past
  186. Why did you last end up in a hospital bed?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body, mortality · body, health
  187. Who was your first crush, and what did you do about it?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, identity · sex, childhood
  188. Who has to listen to you complain about your day?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · friendship, family · friendship, work
  189. If I'd met you ten years ago, what would I have gotten wrong about you?Fast Friends · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · story · identity · partner, change
  190. Who was the last person to call you a disappointment?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, failure · disappointment, relationships
  191. Who took you to your first funeral, and whose was it?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, mortality · mortality, family
  192. Which part of your reputation is wrong?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · reputation, identity
  193. Share a time envy made you behave badly.Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · envy, shame
  194. When were you loneliest? Who had no idea?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · loneliness, hiding
  195. Who do you refuse to ever forgive?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · story · failure, friendship, family · grudges, anger, past
  196. Who taught you to hide what you were feeling?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · family, identity · family, shame
  197. What did you exaggerate today just to impress me?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · story · identity, failure · partner, honesty, ego
  198. Tell your partner about a choice that closed off another life you could have had.Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity, failure · choices, roads-not-taken
  199. Tell me what you think it costs you to be the way you are.Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · identity, cost
  200. What have you forgiven someone for without ever telling them?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · forgiveness
  201. Whose face do you see when you look in the mirror?Fast Friends · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · family, identity · identity, family
  202. AngryImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  203. HappyImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  204. SadImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  205. BoredImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  206. NervousImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  207. ExcitedImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  208. TiredImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  209. ProudImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  210. ConfusedImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  211. ShyImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  212. GrumpyImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  213. CheerfulImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  214. ScaredImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  215. CalmImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  216. JealousImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  217. CuriousImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  218. SleepyImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  219. HungryImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  220. ImpatientImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  221. RelievedImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · mood
  222. FiremanImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  223. BankerImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  224. TeacherImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  225. PirateImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  226. GrandmotherImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  227. DogImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  228. ChefImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  229. DetectiveImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  230. NurseImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  231. FarmerImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  232. AstronautImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  233. Bus DriverImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  234. LifeguardImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  235. LibrarianImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  236. CatImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  237. WizardImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  238. Football CoachImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  239. DentistImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  240. QueenImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  241. RobotImprov · Level 1 · exposure 1 · role
  242. SmugImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  243. HomesickImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  244. DistrustfulImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  245. OvercaffeinatedImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  246. SuspiciousImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  247. FlatteredImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  248. SheepishImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  249. VindicatedImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  250. NostalgicImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  251. Overly PoliteImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  252. Secretly ThrilledImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  253. Passive-AggressiveImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  254. LovestruckImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  255. WistfulImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  256. DefensiveImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  257. StarstruckImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  258. MelodramaticImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  259. Deeply UnimpressedImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  260. GuiltyImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  261. ChipperImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · mood
  262. CrabImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  263. Wedding DJImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  264. Retired AstronautImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  265. Sentient ToasterImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  266. Substitute TeacherImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  267. Tax InspectorImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  268. Mall SantaImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  269. SeagullImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  270. Cruise Ship MagicianImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  271. Museum GuardImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  272. Parking AttendantImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  273. Reality TV JudgeImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  274. GooseImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  275. Wine SommelierImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  276. Escaped Zoo PenguinImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  277. Airport AnnouncerImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  278. Ghost of a LandlordImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  279. Yoga InstructorImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  280. Local News WeathermanImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  281. SlothImprov · Level 2 · exposure 2 · role
  282. Quietly TriumphantImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  283. Existentially BoredImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  284. Falsely ModestImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  285. Aggressively GratefulImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  286. Cautiously EuphoricImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  287. Politely FuriousImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  288. Nostalgic for Next WeekImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  289. Suspiciously CalmImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  290. Heroically IndifferentImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  291. Romantically ConfusedImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  292. Tragically PunctualImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  293. Serenely PanickedImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  294. Smugly ApologeticImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  295. Bravely CowardlyImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  296. Cheerfully DoomedImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · mood
  297. The Concept of MondayImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  298. A Haunted Vending MachineImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  299. Your Own ShadowImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  300. A Very Patient VolcanoImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  301. The Last BiscuitImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  302. A Sunset with OpinionsImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  303. An Unread EmailImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  304. The Moon, Off DutyImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  305. A Retired Superhero's CapeImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  306. Gravity, on StrikeImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  307. A Traffic Cone with AmbitionImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  308. The Wi-Fi PasswordImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  309. A Lighthouse in LoveImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  310. A Cloud that RemembersImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  311. The Feeling of Déjà VuImprov · Level 3 · exposure 3 · role
  312. What do you like to learn about?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 2 · escape 5 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · priority · present · solo · fact · identity · curiosity
  313. What's the last thing you got weirdly good at?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · skills, story
  314. Where do you go when you need to think?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · process · present · solo · fact · home · habits, place
  315. What did you want to be when you were ten?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · experience · past · solo · fact · work, identity · childhood
  316. What's a small thing that reliably makes your day better?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 5 · specific 2 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · affect · present · solo · fact · home · habits, taste
  317. What are you a snob about?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · taste
  318. Who taught you something you still use?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · work, friendship · people, story
  319. What do people get wrong about the place you grew up?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · past · solo · story · home · place, childhood
  320. What's the best meal you've had this year, and who was there?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, home · food, people
  321. What are you reading, watching or listening to that you'd actually recommend?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 2 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · priority · present · solo · fact · identity · taste
  322. What did you believe for a long time that turned out to be wrong?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · solo · story · faith, identity · beliefs, change
  323. What's an opinion you hold that most of your friends don't?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · opinions
  324. When did you last change your mind about something that mattered?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · change, beliefs
  325. What did your parents get right?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · family
  326. What's a compliment you got that you still think about?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · people, self
  327. What's the most useful thing anyone has ever told you?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 2 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · experience · past · relational · fact · work, identity · advice
  328. What do you do that you suspect is unusual?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · process · present · solo · fact · identity, body · habits, self
  329. What have you quit, and were you right to?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · verdict · failure, work · change, work
  330. What kind of person do you find hard to be around?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · people, opinions
  331. What's a rule you live by that you've never said out loud?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · values
  332. What are you working on in yourself right now?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 1 · exposes 3 · revealed 1 · process · present · solo · fact · identity, failure · self, growth
  333. What do you envy in other people?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · self, envy
  334. What have you been avoiding?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · fact · work, failure · avoidance
  335. When did you last cry, and what was it actually about?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality, failure · emotion
  336. What's a fear you have that sounds silly when you say it?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · affect · present · solo · fact · identity · fear
  337. What do you wish you'd said to someone?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · regret, people
  338. Which part of your life would you not want your younger self to see?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 2 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · story · failure, identity · regret, self
  339. What do you need more of that you have trouble asking for?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · needs
  340. What would you do differently if nobody would judge you for it?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, sex · freedom, self
  341. What have you forgiven someone for that you're not sure you should have?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship, family · forgiveness, people
  342. Is there a belief that's useful to hold and false?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 1 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · faith, identity · beliefs, philosophy
  343. What do you think happens when we die, and does it change how you live?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · future · solo · verdict · mortality, faith · mortality, meaning
  344. What would you want people to say about you when you're not in the room?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · identity, legacy
  345. What's the thing you've never told anyone, or the closest thing to it you can say?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 2 · escape 2 · specific 1 · exposes 5 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · secrets
  346. What do you think I've got wrong about you so far?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · us, identity
  347. What do you hope is true?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 1 · exposes 2 · revealed 1 · affect · future · solo · feeling · faith, mortality · hope, meaning
  348. If you had one phone call left, who would you call, and what would you say?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship, family · mortality, people
  349. What's the loneliest you've ever been?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · loneliness
  350. If you knew you had five years left, what would you stop doing tomorrow?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality, work · mortality, priorities
  351. What do you think you're for?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, work · meaning, identity
  352. What did you give up on that you've never told anyone about?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · dreams, loss
  353. Have you ever felt relief when you were supposed to feel sad?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, mortality, failure · grief, honesty
  354. What do you need from me that you've never asked for?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · feeling · friendship · us, needs
  355. What would have to happen for you to feel your life was wasted?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · future · solo · verdict · failure, mortality, work · meaning, fear
  356. Who would be hardest to lose, and does that person know?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality, family, friendship · love, loss
  357. What have you wanted to ask me but decided against?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · us, candor
  358. What question are you hoping I never ask you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · fear, secrets
  359. What are you currently pretending not to know?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · fact · failure, family, work · truth, denial
  360. What are you pretending to be fine about?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · solo · feeling · failure, identity · denial, honesty
  361. What do you do when you're hurt that you're not proud of?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · failure, identity · conflict, habits
  362. Who did you fail when they needed you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship, family · guilt, loyalty
  363. What would have to change for you to feel like you'd done enough?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · future · solo · verdict · work, failure, identity · ambition, enough
  364. What would you want to be doing on your last ordinary day?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · future · solo · story · mortality, home · mortality, meaning
  365. Has anyone ever loved you more than you loved them?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · love, imbalance
  366. Who did you stop speaking to, and do you regret it?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · estrangement, regret
  367. When did you first understand that your parents were afraid of something?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, childhood
  368. When you imagine being old, who's sitting next to you?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship · future, companionship
  369. What makes you crueler than you want to be?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · feeling · failure, identity · anger, character
  370. When did you realise someone couldn't give you what you needed?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · disappointment, relationships
  371. What have you forgiven without ever getting an apology?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship, family · forgiveness, hurt
  372. When did you stop believing an adult would come and fix things?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · family, identity · childhood, disillusionment
  373. How long do you think we will know each other?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · verdict · friendship · meta, future
  374. What do you blame your parents for that they will never know?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · family, failure · family, resentment
  375. Which stranger has stuck in your head?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · strangers, memory
  376. What were you wrong about the first time you met someone here?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · friendship · first impressions
  377. What argument do you keep having with the same person?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · friendship, family · conflict, relationships
  378. What did your family teach you about money that you're still undoing?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · family, money · family, money
  379. What kind of tired are you these days?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · affect · present · solo · verdict · work, body · exhaustion, state
  380. Who have you failed, and do they know it?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · regret, guilt
  381. Is there someone you still love who doesn't know?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · verdict · sex, friendship · love, secrets
  382. What death changed you most?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, family · mortality, grief
  383. What's the worst thing you've done to someone who trusted you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · guilt, betrayal
  384. When did you realize an adult had no idea what they were doing?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, work · adulthood, childhood
  385. What do you miss about a time you would never go back to?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · affect · past · solo · feeling · identity · nostalgia, change
  386. When have you felt closest to me?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · closeness, us
  387. Which smell takes you straight back somewhere?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · fact · home · memory, senses
  388. Where would you go back to, knowing it won't be the same?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · past · solo · verdict · home, mortality · travel, memory
  389. What do you do that you'd be embarrassed to have filmed?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · present · solo · verdict · body, identity · habits, humour
  390. Who were you at sixteen?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · youth, identity
  391. What's the best argument you've ever lost?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · conflict, opinion
  392. Which of your habits came straight from someone else?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · fact · identity, family · influence, habits
  393. What's the last thing that made you angry on someone else's behalf?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · values, anger
  394. What decision are you still defending years later?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · verdict · failure, identity · regret, choices
  395. What do you think I'd be shocked to learn about you?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · fact · identity · secrets, us
  396. Who would you most hate to disappoint?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, friendship · approval, loyalty
  397. What about getting older are you least prepared for?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · future · solo · verdict · body, mortality · aging, fear
  398. What do you do on a day with nothing in it?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · story · home · time, rest
  399. What do you spend money on that other people think is wasteful?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · fact · money · money, habits
  400. What's a job you've had that changed how you treat strangers?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work, empathy
  401. What did you think adults knew that it turns out nobody knows?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · growing up
  402. What's a phase you went through that you're glad ended?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · past, identity
  403. What have you owned far longer than you expected?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · home · possessions, history
  404. When did a stranger last make you laugh?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · strangers, humor
  405. What piece of old technology do you miss despite it being worse?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · past · solo · verdict · technology, nostalgia
  406. What did your first bad boss teach you?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work, lessons
  407. Who changed your taste in music?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, identity · music, influence
  408. What smell instantly takes you back to being a kid?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · fact · family, home · memory, childhood, senses
  409. What job would you be terrible at but love doing?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · work · career, imagination, work
  410. What is your most boring memory that you can't forget?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · memory, past, childhood
  411. When did you stay somewhere longer than you should have?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · leaving, regret
  412. What would make your life feel wasted?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality, failure, identity · meaning, purpose
  413. What would you trust me with that you would not trust most people with?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · trust, us
  414. When did you realize your parents were just people?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family · parents, childhood, maturity
  415. Who did you trust that you shouldn't have?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · trust, betrayal, past
  416. Who are you never going to forgive?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship, family · forgiveness, grudges
  417. What is the cruelest thing you have ever said to someone?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · cruelty, guilt, anger
  418. How do you want to die?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality · mortality, death
  419. When do you feel most ashamed of who you are?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 2 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · affect · present · solo · feeling · failure, identity · shame, self
  420. What makes you laugh when you're alone?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · story · identity · humour
  421. Which shop or building from your childhood is gone now?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · fact · home · nostalgia, place
  422. Which teacher do you still think about, good or bad?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · school, formative
  423. When did you last feel like a fraud?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, failure, identity · doubt, identity
  424. What food do you associate with being looked after?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, home, body · food, care
  425. What's the best money you've spent in the last year?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · money · money, taste
  426. What song do you play when nobody else is choosing?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · fact · identity · music
  427. Which local place would you hate to see disappear?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · home · local, places
  428. What was your worst summer job?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · work · work, childhood, stories
  429. When did you last break someone's heart?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · love, pain
  430. What apology are you still owed?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship, family · forgiveness, hurt
  431. When do you feel loneliest around other people?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · feeling · identity, friendship · loneliness, belonging
  432. When did you learn not to trust your own judgment?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · trust, doubt
  433. What did success fail to fix for you?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · past · solo · verdict · work, identity · success, expectations
  434. What are you scared might never happen for you?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · future · solo · verdict · failure, identity · future, fear
  435. Which goodbye still feels unfinished?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, friendship · grief, farewell
  436. What do you argue about most often in your head?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · verdict · identity · thoughts, conflict, opinions
  437. Who did you forgive but still don't trust?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · friendship, family · relationships, trust, past
  438. Who do you want sitting next to you on your deathbed?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family, friendship · mortality, connection
  439. When did you come closest to giving up entirely?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · despair, resilience
  440. What do you think is going to kill you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · future · solo · verdict · mortality, body · mortality, fear
  441. What did you lose that you still haven't replaced?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · story · home, identity · loss, grief
  442. What age do you feel in your head?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · affect · present · solo · fact · identity · identity, aging, self
  443. Who do you call when you get good news?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · relationships, joy, family
  444. What do you judge other people for that you do yourself?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · judgment, hypocrisy, habits
  445. What compliment do you get most, and do you believe it?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · self-image
  446. What are you slightly too competitive about?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · verdict · identity · competition
  447. What do you notice about people that other people miss?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · observation
  448. What's the worst advice you ever followed?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · advice, mistakes
  449. What board game do you take way too seriously?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · fact · identity · games, hobbies, personality
  450. Where did you go that felt like another planet?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · home · travel, experience, places
  451. What do you eat when you are home alone?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · fact · home, body · food, habits, privacy
  452. What are you looking forward to that nobody else cares about?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · identity · anticipation, quirks, hobbies
  453. Which small superstition do you still follow?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · process · present · solo · fact · faith · superstition
  454. What do you always notice first in someone's house?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · fact · home · observation
  455. What would break us?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · us, endings
  456. When have I made you feel alone?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · us, loneliness
  457. What would make you walk away from me?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · us, limits
  458. When have you trusted me least?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · us, trust
  459. Where do you think I am lying to myself?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · us, honesty
  460. Who do you wish had fought harder to keep you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · past · relational · story · family, friendship · love, abandonment
  461. What have I said that you're still carrying around?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · us, words
  462. Who have you replaced?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · love, loss
  463. What did you think was normal at home until you saw a friend's house?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, home · family, childhood
  464. Whose posts do you always read but never like?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · internet, habits
  465. What's in your bag right now that would surprise me?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · fact · home · objects, curiosity
  466. What did you get in trouble for at school?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · school, childhood
  467. Who's the funniest person you've met in real life?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · people, humour
  468. What are you bad at but keep doing anyway?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · story · failure, identity · hobbies, habits
  469. What was the last Wikipedia page you read all the way through?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 5 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · identity · internet, reading
  470. How did you get your oldest scar?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body · bodies, injuries
  471. What do you know about the people who live next door?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · story · home · neighbors, home
  472. Who were you before the thing that changed you?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity, mortality · identity, change
  473. What did your bedroom look like when you were fifteen?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · home, identity · childhood, home
  474. Who in your family are you afraid of turning into?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family · family, identity
  475. What can't you afford that you pretend not to want?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money · money, pride
  476. Who did you leave behind when your life got better?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · success, guilt, past
  477. What conversation have you overheard that you still think about?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · friendship, identity · strangers, memory
  478. What would you be doing if you'd stayed where you grew up?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · work, home · home, paths
  479. What did you pretend to understand for far too long?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, work · confusion, pretending
  480. What's the strangest job anyone in your family has had?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · work, family · family, work
  481. When did money make you do something you didn't respect?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · money, failure · money, values
  482. Who has the life you thought you were going to have?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · envy, expectations, comparison
  483. What do you resent being good at?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · solo · verdict · work, identity · talent, resentment
  484. What have you faked being good at?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, identity · work, pretending
  485. Why did you quit the thing you were best at?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, work, identity · skills, quitting
  486. What awful gift did you have to pretend to love?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · gifts, awkward
  487. When did dumb luck save you?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · luck, experiences
  488. What will whoever empties your house find most confusing?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · future · solo · fact · home, mortality · death, possessions
  489. When did you choose not to know something you could have found out?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, sex, friendship · avoidance, truth
  490. When did you know a relationship was over before it ended?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · relationships, endings
  491. What do you do at three in the morning when sleep won't come?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · story · body, home · sleep, night
  492. What expensive thing did you break by accident?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · money, failure · accidents, objects
  493. Whose old insult still echoes in your head?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · past · relational · story · failure, identity · memory, grudges
  494. Who first treated you like an adult?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, identity · growing up, people
  495. Who taught you to drive, and how did that go?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 5 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · driving, learning
  496. Who took the blame for something you did?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · guilt, blame
  497. What's the strangest thing you've been paid to do?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, money · work, stories
  498. What did you borrow from someone and never give back?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · objects, borrowing
  499. When did you first notice money changing how people behaved?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · money · money, people
  500. When did you realize you cared about status?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, money, work · status, identity
  501. What did you learn to keep quiet about at home?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, home · family, secrecy
  502. What's the pettiest reason you've gone off someone?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · people, judgement
  503. What was your first email address trying to say about you?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · internet, youth
  504. Who taught you when not to be honest?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · honesty, advice
  505. When did you let someone take the blame for you?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship, work · blame, cowardice
  506. When did you realize you were ashamed of someone you loved?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · love, shame
  507. Who paid the price for your ambition?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · work, failure · ambition, regret
  508. Who saw you at your worst and stayed?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · loyalty, love
  509. Whose life do you check up on when yours feels thin?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · comparison, envy
  510. How did your family talk about money when you were growing up?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · process · past · relational · story · family, money · family, money
  511. When has being polite got you into trouble?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · manners, conflict
  512. When did you realize you were not as talented as you thought?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity, work · ambition, limits
  513. Which local rumor did you grow up believing?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · home, faith · rumors, hometown
  514. Whose bad luck made you feel better?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · envy, shame
  515. What did you learn to laugh about so nobody would pity you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · shame, humor
  516. If you died tomorrow, what mess would you leave behind?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · solo · fact · mortality, failure, home · mortality, regrets, chaos
  517. When did someone see straight through you?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · exposure, honesty
  518. Who could ruin you with what they know?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · secrets, power
  519. What seemed luxurious when you were growing up that seems ordinary now?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · money, home · childhood, luxury
  520. What is the oddest thing a neighbor has done?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · home · neighbors, stories
  521. When have you enjoyed seeing someone fail?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · failure, shame
  522. What have you rescued from someone else's rubbish?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · money, home · objects, thrift
  523. What have you eaten because refusing felt rude?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · body, family, friendship · food, manners
  524. What's the worst haircut you've ever had?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body · appearance, story
  525. What did you do for cash as a teenager?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, money · money, youth
  526. What travel mistake became a good story?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · travel, mistakes
  527. What piece of clothing did you ruin almost immediately?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, money · clothing, mistakes
  528. What did travelling ruin for you?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · verdict · home · travel, perspective
  529. What are you an expert in that nobody ever asks you about?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · fact · identity, work · knowledge, interests
  530. Which film did you see far too young?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · family · film, childhood
  531. Which everyday word did you pronounce wrong for years?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · identity, failure · words, childhood
  532. What do you hide when people come over?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · home, identity · judgment, privacy
  533. Who did you drag down with you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · regret, influence
  534. What happened on your most chaotic morning?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · home, work · mornings, chaos
  535. When did you realize someone you loved was dangerous?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, mortality · love, danger
  536. How did you get your most recent bruise?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · body · injuries, memory
  537. When have you mistaken being wanted for being loved?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, identity · love, desire
  538. What do you keep from the person closest to you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · identity, family · secrets, intimacy
  539. Whose forgiveness have you stopped trying to get?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship, family · forgiveness, guilt, givingup
  540. What damage did you cause that you can never fix?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · guilt, mistakes, past
  541. What have you survived that you almost never mention?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality, failure, body · survival, secrets
  542. When has being useful been easier than being close?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family, identity · closeness, worth
  543. Whose body have you sat beside after they died?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality · death, grief
  544. Whose pain have you enjoyed?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, mortality · guilt, sadism
  545. What has kept you alive without making you happy?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · experience · present · solo · verdict · mortality, identity · survival, happiness
  546. What do I do that you just put up with?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · us, habits, patience
  547. What do you think I am lying to myself about?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · us, truth, blindspots
  548. What do you think I envy about you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · us, envy, perception
  549. Who took the most from you?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship, failure · loss, past, damage
  550. What do you think I need but would hate being offered?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · us, care
  551. What do you believe about love that you hope is false?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · sex, faith · love, beliefs, fear
  552. Who would you defend even knowing they were in the wrong?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · loyalty, values
  553. What's the closest you've come to dying?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality, body · mortality, fear
  554. What did you do just for the money?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, money · money, values
  555. What do we pretend to agree on?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · relationship, honesty
  556. Who made ambition look unattractive to you?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work · ambition, influence
  557. What's the longest walk you've taken on purpose?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body · walking, outdoors
  558. When did someone's kindness embarrass you?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · kindness, pride
  559. What criticism about you turned out to be true?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · criticism, self-image
  560. What makes you difficult to live with?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · home, identity · relationships, habits, flaws
  561. What would you relive even knowing how it ends?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, friendship · memory, loss
  562. What did being broke teach you?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · money · money, lessons
  563. What would you want burned before anyone found it?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · fact · identity, mortality · secrets, death
  564. How do you punish people when you are angry with them?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · anger, conflict, habits
  565. Which friendship are you letting die without saying so?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · friendship · friendship, avoidance
  566. What have you done that you'd do again, knowing the damage it caused?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, mortality · regret, harm
  567. What’s the most dramatic entrance you’ve made by accident?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · entrances, accidents
  568. When did money buy your silence?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · money, work · money, silence
  569. What's the best thing you've ever found on the street?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · home · luck, objects
  570. Which rule do you enjoy breaking when nobody gets hurt?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · rules, habits
  571. Which minor celebrity encounter do you still tell people about?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · celebrities, encounters
  572. Who do you act differently around without meaning to?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · social, behavior, relationships
  573. What did you give up for someone else that they never knew about?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · sacrifice, secrets, relationships
  574. Who in your family do you love out of duty rather than warmth?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, duty
  575. Who calls you a nickname nobody else uses?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · story · family, friendship · names, relationships
  576. Who do you let interrupt you?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, work, family · conversation, relationships
  577. What made you feel grown up before you were?Inquisitives · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · family, identity · growing up
  578. What is the strangest sentence you have overheard?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · strangers, memory
  579. What are you losing your nerve for?Inquisitives · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · solo · verdict · identity, failure · aging, courage
  580. What's the strangest thing you've eaten and gone back for?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · body · food
  581. When did you last dress for the wrong occasion?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · body, failure · clothes, mistakes
  582. Who got the best gift you ever gave?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · gifts, giving
  583. What have you eaten just to be polite?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · home · food, manners
  584. When did a shortcut take longer?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · work, failure · mistakes, travel
  585. What do you do in the first ten minutes after you get home?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · fact · home, body · habits, home
  586. What do you talk about with a barber or a taxi driver?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · identity · strangers, talk
  587. What did your family do on Sundays?Inquisitives · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · fact · family, faith, home · family, traditions
  588. When do you find yourself performing for me?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity · pretense, us
  589. Who do you hope dies before you do?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family, friendship · mortality, grief, family
  590. If I outlive you, what do you want me to keep?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · fact · mortality, home · death, memory
  591. What do we lie to each other about?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · friendship · relationship, deception
  592. What am I to you, said plainly?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · us, love
  593. Whose pain have you made about yourself?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship, family · pain, selfishness
  594. What have you kept from me to spare me?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · us, secrets
  595. Meeting me for the first time now, would you pick me?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · us, doubt
  596. What would you want to hear before you die?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, faith · death, love
  597. When have you felt jealous of me?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · us, jealousy
  598. What memory do you try hardest to push away?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, mortality · memory, trauma
  599. What's my worst quality?Inquisitives · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · us, honesty
  600. The friend who's done one job since school: do you envy them, or would their life kill you?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · work, identity · novelty vs mastery, work, envy
  601. Did you leave your last job with the next one signed, or did you just go?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · story · work · order vs improvisation, work, money
  602. Someone you had a bad feeling about and nothing to back it up with: did you work with them anyway?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · logic vs intuition, work, people
  603. Where did you spend last Christmas, and who had to accept you weren't coming to theirs?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship, home · autonomy vs belonging, family, holidays
  604. Do you take the big lie to the grave, or leave it on a note for them to find?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, failure, family · control vs surrender, secrets, truth
  605. When the doctor asked how much you drink, did you give the real number or round it down?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · body, failure · privacy vs openness, health, honesty
  606. Which has cost you more: biting your tongue, or saying exactly what you thought?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · authenticity vs adaptation, regret, honesty
  607. Who do you admire more: the sellout who bought their mother a house, or the purist who stayed broke?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · money, family, work · authenticity vs adaptation, money, principles
  608. Who did you cut off because they knew too much about how you used to live?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, identity · privacy vs openness, past, friendship
  609. What paid for your current life: the jobs you turned down, or the friends you stopped calling?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · work, friendship, failure · impact vs intimacy, regret, sacrifice
  610. The friend still chasing it with no money in the bank: envy or pity?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship, money, failure · ambition vs stability, friends, envy
  611. What got you out of your last job: the math of a new offer, or dreading the commute?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, failure · logic vs intuition, career, work
  612. Who got a handshake when you left, instead of the riot act?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · truth vs harmony, endings, restraint
  613. Which apology will you have to make at the end: sorry I wasn't around, or sorry I didn't amount to more?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · work, failure, family · passion vs duty, regret, confession
  614. When a friend last walked you through their new venture, did you point at the hole or tell them to go?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, work · optimism vs realism, friends, work
  615. The busy years took something. Which went first, the body or the friends?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · body, friendship, work · ambition vs stability, health, friends
  616. Someone's father says something ugly at dinner. Last time, did you argue or pass the potatoes?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family · authenticity vs adaptation, family, conflict
  617. What would the job have to pay for you to miss your father's last spring?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, family, money, mortality · output vs presence, money, parents
  618. When you booked your last birthday dinner, did you reserve seats for everyone invited, or just the reliable ones?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · optimism vs realism, friendships, expectations
  619. If you lost the job tomorrow, do you sign another lease here or pack the car?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home, work · roots vs horizon, stability, risk
  620. Have you kept the accent, or trained yourself to sound like you're from nowhere?Leanings · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · verdict · identity, home · roots vs horizon, identity, reinvention
  621. The last person who told you to be honest with them: were you?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, identity · truth vs harmony, honesty, record
  622. Who do you call unambitious behind their back and envy on Sunday nights?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · fact · work, friendship · excellence vs contentment, envy
  623. You missed something at home to finish a piece of work. Would you miss it again?Leanings · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · work, home, failure · impact vs intimacy, work
  624. Last time you cooked for someone, was it the dish you can do blind or one you'd never made?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · home · novelty vs mastery, cooking, habit
  625. Last time you cooked for a crowd, did you serve your best dish or gamble the meal on a new one?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · past · relational · story · home, failure · novelty vs mastery, food
  626. Last thing you cooked for other people: did you weigh anything?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 1 · revealed 5 · process · past · relational · verdict · home · logic vs intuition, cooking
  627. When you moved in, did you pay movers or buy your mates pizza and borrow a van?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · money, friendship, home · money vs time, moving, friends
  628. What's in your cupboard: one sport's kit worn through, or five hobbies barely used?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 5 · experience · present · solo · fact · identity, home · depth vs breadth, hobbies, money
  629. A company owes you forty quid by mistake. Afternoon on hold, or let them keep it?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money · money vs time, admin, patience
  630. Your dinner money: does it go to a regular table at one joint, or fifty places you haven't tried?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, home · depth vs breadth, food, routines
  631. The morphine takes the pain and the last clear conversation with it. Do you take it?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, body · control vs surrender, dying, pain
  632. Who do you travel with, the one with the spreadsheet or the one who books the flight the night before?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · order vs improvisation, travel, friends
  633. Your last free evening with friends: one person until closing or a quick drink with half the town?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · depth vs breadth, friends, time
  634. What happened to the box your television came in: straight to the recycling, or into the attic just in case?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · verdict · home · optimism vs realism, possessions, habits
  635. The last gift you overspent on: had they asked for it, or did you spot it and buy it?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · money, friendship · logic vs intuition, gifts
  636. On your last trip, did you follow the itinerary or walk until you got hungry?Leanings · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · process · past · solo · verdict · identity · logic vs intuition, travel, habits
  637. Are you going to stay awake to give the last instructions, or take the painkillers and let them guess?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, body · control vs surrender, death, pain
  638. One old argument gets your final hour. Do you settle it or let the other person keep their ending?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship, failure · control vs surrender, conflict, death
  639. What did keeping a family story in the family cost you?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, failure · privacy vs openness, family
  640. Will you pack your own bags for the hospice, or make them carry you out of the house?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, body, home · control vs surrender, pride, illness
  641. Who signs for you at the end, the one who'll do exactly as asked or the one who'll fight to keep you breathing?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship, family · control vs surrender, dying, family
  642. Who decides what happens to your body, you on a piece of paper or the people left in the room?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, body, family · control vs surrender, legacy, family
  643. Of the deaths you've sat through, whose would you take for yourself?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality · control vs surrender, death, witness
  644. One call left in you: the person you stood up for the work, or the one who did the work beside you?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, work, friendship · passion vs duty, death
  645. A funeral back home or a week of work that can't move: which one have you already picked?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · priority · past · relational · story · mortality, work, family · roots vs horizon, family, work
  646. If your last week turns painful, do you stay awake for it or take enough medicine to lose the thread?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality, body · control vs surrender, pain, death
  647. Your last healthy summer has room for one: care for your sick brother or take the trip you postponed for thirty years?Leanings · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · passion vs duty, care, travel
  648. Never have I ever been relieved when a friend's good news fell through.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · jealousy, friendship
  649. Never have I ever skipped a funeral I should have gone to.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, failure · grief, regret
  650. Never have I ever told a parent I hated them.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, anger
  651. Never have I ever kept someone around because I was scared of being alone.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · loneliness, relationships
  652. Never have I ever begged someone to take me back.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · heartbreak, pride
  653. Never have I ever said I love you and not meant it.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · love, honesty
  654. Never have I ever kept a secret that damaged someone I care about.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · secrets, guilt
  655. Never have I ever told someone I loved them mid-sex and meant it.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · love, sex
  656. Never have I ever cried straight after sex.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, body · sex, emotion
  657. Never have I ever contacted an ex while hiding it from my partner.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · exes, secrecy
  658. Never have I ever snooped through a partner's messages looking for a reason to leave.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · snooping, breakups
  659. Never have I ever kept a secret that could ruin someone's life.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · secrets, power
  660. Never have I ever downplayed a partner's success because it made me jealous.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, work · jealousy, relationships
  661. Never have I ever practised a conversation in the shower before having it.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · identity · rehearsing, habits
  662. Never have I ever let a stranger think I was someone else.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · mistakenidentity
  663. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend's partner.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · crushes, friends
  664. Never have I ever stayed in a relationship months after I knew it was over.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · relationships, regret
  665. Never have I ever let a friend take the blame for something I did.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friendship, guilt
  666. Never have I ever pretended to be happy for someone at their wedding.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · jealousy, weddings
  667. Never have I ever let a friendship die because I stopped replying.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friendship, distance
  668. Never have I ever quit something because I was afraid of being bad at it.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, identity · fear, regret
  669. Never have I ever missed someone I told everyone I was over.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · feeling · failure · heartbreak, denial
  670. Never have I ever felt embarrassed by where I come from.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity, family, home · class, shame
  671. Never have I ever cancelled on a friend because I couldn't face being seen.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · body, friendship · mentalhealth, friendship
  672. Never have I ever hoped a friend's relationship would end.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · jealousy, friendship
  673. Never have I ever slept with someone to get over someone else.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · sex, heartbreak
  674. Never have I ever faked an orgasm to end things faster.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, body · sex, honesty
  675. Never have I ever stayed in a relationship purely for the sex.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · relationships, sex
  676. Never have I ever kissed a friend and pretended the next morning it never happened.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · friendship, romance
  677. Never have I ever asked a partner for something in bed and instantly regretted asking.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · desire, shame
  678. Never have I ever gone through a partner's phone while they slept.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · trust, jealousy
  679. Never have I ever stayed friends with an ex I still wanted.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · exes, longing
  680. Never have I ever been dumped while naked.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · body, sex, failure · breakups, humiliation
  681. Never have I ever said someone else's name in bed.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · sex, mistake
  682. Never have I ever fallen for someone who wanted to keep things casual.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · feelings, casual
  683. Never have I ever slept with a friend's ex.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship, failure · sex, friendship, taboo
  684. Never have I ever stopped midway through sex because it was too awkward.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, body · sex, awkward, regret
  685. Never have I ever kissed someone at a wedding I wasn't invited to.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · weddings, crushes
  686. Never have I ever taken credit at work for something I didn't do.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, credit
  687. Never have I ever sent a naked photo to the wrong person.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, body, failure · sexting, mistake
  688. Never have I ever flown to another country for one person.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · money · romance, distance
  689. Never have I ever proposed something in bed I'd only ever read about.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · sex, curiosity
  690. Never have I ever had a one-night stand turn into years.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · hookup, relationships
  691. Never have I ever pretended to have seen a film everyone was talking about.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, failure · films, bluffing
  692. Never have I ever laughed at a joke I did not understand.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · fact · identity · humour, pretending
  693. Never have I ever re-read my own message after sending it, just to admire it.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · texting, vanity
  694. Never have I ever left a shop without buying anything because a staff member spoke to me.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · shopping, awkward
  695. Never have I ever googled something during an argument to prove I was right.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · arguments, google
  696. Never have I ever pretended to be busy when I saw someone I knew approaching.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · avoidance, social
  697. Never have I ever binned a plant I promised to keep alive.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · home, failure · plants, failure
  698. Never have I ever called in sick to spend the day doing nothing.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · work · work, lies
  699. Never have I ever read someone's messages over their shoulder on a train.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · nosy, strangers
  700. Never have I ever taken the last of something and blamed someone else.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, family · household, blame
  701. Never have I ever laughed at a joke I found offensive to keep the peace.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, failure · social, honesty
  702. Never have I ever flirted with someone to get better service.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · flirting, favours
  703. Never have I ever looked up an ex before a date with someone new.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · dating, exes
  704. Never have I ever kept money I found on the floor of a friend's car.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · money, friendship, failure · money, honesty
  705. Never have I ever climbed into the wrong car.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · cars, confusion
  706. Never have I ever practised a casual greeting before answering the phone.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · phone, social
  707. Never have I ever pretended to forget my wallet when it was my round.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · money, friendship, failure · money, friends
  708. Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to avoid helping someone.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · home · avoidance, home
  709. Never have I ever given someone the wrong number on purpose.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · dating, rejection
  710. Never have I ever eaten food with someone else's name on it.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, home · food, roommates
  711. Never have I ever kept using an ex's streaming account.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · money · exes, television
  712. Never have I ever taken credit for a joke I heard elsewhere.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · humour, credit
  713. Never have I ever left a shop quickly because I thought I looked suspicious.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · shopping, anxiety
  714. Never have I ever stalked the ex of someone I just started dating.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, identity · dating, snooping, socialmedia
  715. Never have I ever wanted someone in this room.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · sex · attraction, present
  716. Never have I ever used a friend's secret to win an argument.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friendship, betrayal
  717. Never have I ever ignored a call from someone who needed me.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · guilt, support
  718. Never have I ever made a promise I already knew I would break.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · promises, dishonesty
  719. Never have I ever lied to a partner about my number.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · sex, lying
  720. Never have I ever woken up beside someone and regretted staying.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · regret, hookups
  721. Never have I ever slept with an ex just because I was bored.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · exes, sex, boredom
  722. Never have I ever invented a whole excuse to leave a date early.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · dating, excuses
  723. Never have I ever been caught mid-hookup by someone who lived there.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, home · sex, embarrassment
  724. Never have I ever slept with an ex after swearing it was over.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · exes, breakups
  725. Never have I ever said the wrong name during sex.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · sex, mistakes
  726. Never have I ever hidden the evidence after breaking something in someone else's house.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · home, failure · mischief, accidents, secrets
  727. Never have I ever snooped through a bathroom cabinet at someone's house.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · home · nosy, houses
  728. Never have I ever forgotten someone's name mid-introduction.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · names, social
  729. Never have I ever pretended to have read a book in a conversation.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · books, bluffing
  730. Never have I ever made up a dietary restriction to avoid a meal.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · body · food, excuses
  731. Never have I ever laughed at the wrong moment in a serious meeting.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, laughing
  732. Never have I ever got off a bus a stop early to avoid talking to someone.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · transport, avoidance
  733. Never have I ever sent a kissing face emoji to my boss.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, accidents
  734. Never have I ever told a hairdresser I loved it and hated it.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · body · hair, fib
  735. Never have I ever introduced myself to someone I had already met.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · introductions, memory
  736. Never have I ever hidden a pile of washing in the oven before guests arrived.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · home · home, guests
  737. Never have I ever let my parents believe I was doing better than I was.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family, failure · family, shame
  738. Never have I ever left a hospital visit early because I couldn't handle it.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, family, failure · illness, guilt
  739. Never have I ever stopped visiting a grandparent because it got too hard.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family, mortality, failure · family, regret
  740. Never have I ever moved somewhere new to get away from one person.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · home, failure · escape, love
  741. Never have I ever avoided visiting a relative before they died.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, family, failure · family, regret
  742. Never have I ever let someone apologise for something that was my fault.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · guilt, conflict
  743. Never have I ever avoided a friend after someone in their family died.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, mortality, failure · grief, avoidance
  744. Never have I ever told the same lie so long that I believed it.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity, failure · honesty, self
  745. Never have I ever given up on something I still tell people I'm doing.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · story · identity, failure, work · ambition, pretending
  746. Never have I ever loved someone more than they loved me and stayed anyway.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, sex · love, heartbreak
  747. Never have I ever texted someone else while lying next to a partner.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · cheating, phones
  748. Never have I ever told a partner a fantasy involving someone we both knew.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · fantasy, honesty
  749. Never have I ever tried something in bed only to keep someone interested.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, body · sex, insecurity
  750. Never have I ever wanted a friend's partner for years and said nothing.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, sex · crush, friends
  751. Never have I ever told a friend I loved them and lost the friendship.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · confession, friends
  752. Never have I ever hidden alcohol from the people I live with.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · home, failure, body · habits, shame
  753. Never have I ever ended a friendship because their life was going better than mine.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friendship, envy
  754. Never have I ever ended a relationship the morning after our best sex.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · breakup, sex
  755. Never have I ever fallen asleep beside someone while thinking about somebody else.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · longing, bed
  756. Never have I ever kissed someone during our breakup conversation.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · breakup, kissing
  757. Never have I ever read old love letters in bed beside someone new.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · letters, longing
  758. Never have I ever had sex just to end an argument.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · sex, conflict
  759. Never have I ever kept a jumper someone left at my place.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, home · borrowing, clothes
  760. Never have I ever cried a bit on purpose to get out of trouble.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · manipulation, tears
  761. Never have I ever stretched the truth on my CV and got the job.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · story · work, failure · work, lies
  762. Never have I ever hidden in the car for a nap during a family gathering.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 5 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, escape
  763. Never have I ever told someone I loved their gift and binned it that week.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · gifts, lies
  764. Never have I ever searched my own name in a colleague's email inbox.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, snooping
  765. Never have I ever worn something to an event and returned it the next day.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · money · shopping, clothes
  766. Never have I ever said my phone died when I was just ignoring someone.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · phones, avoidance
  767. Never have I ever told a hairdresser I loved it and fixed it at home.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · body · hair, politeness
  768. Never have I ever forged a parent's signature on a school note.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, failure · school, lies
  769. Never have I ever fallen asleep in the cinema and woken myself up by snoring.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · body · sleep, public
  770. Never have I ever stepped on a squeaky toy during a serious conversation.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · awkward, interruption
  771. Never have I ever answered the phone in a fake professional voice.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, identity · phone, persona
  772. Never have I ever greeted a dog while ignoring its owner.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · fact · animals, social
  773. Never have I ever mispronounced a word because I had only ever read it.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · speaking, language
  774. Never have I ever liked an old post while looking through someone’s profile.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · social media, awkward
  775. Never have I ever unmuted myself halfway through saying something about the meeting.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, video calls
  776. Never have I ever sat in the wrong seat at the cinema and refused to move.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · cinema, stubborn
  777. Never have I ever let a rumour about me spread because I liked it.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, friendship · reputation, gossip
  778. Never have I ever hit the lift close button while making eye contact with someone.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · public, rudeness
  779. Never have I ever liked a three-year-old photo on someone's social media.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · internet, awkward
  780. Never have I ever said goodbye to someone and then walked away in the same direction.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · social, walking
  781. Never have I ever scrolled back and forth on my home screen to look busy.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · identity · phone, public
  782. Never have I ever ordered the dish I could pronounce instead of the one I wanted.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · food, restaurants
  783. Never have I ever fallen over while leaning back in a chair.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · body · clumsiness, furniture
  784. Never have I ever frozen when asked for my own phone number.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · fact · memory, panic
  785. Never have I ever walked into a glass wall.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · body · clumsy, public
  786. Never have I ever tripped on a flat pavement and turned it into a jog.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · body · clumsy, street
  787. Never have I ever sung the wrong words to a song in front of people.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · fact · music, singing
  788. Never have I ever comforted someone while planning how to leave them.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · breakups
  789. Never have I ever watched a partner sleep knowing I was going to leave them.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · breakups, love
  790. Never have I ever left a long relationship over one night with someone else.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · cheating, breakups
  791. Never have I ever slept with an ex while they were packing to move out.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · exes, breakups, sex
  792. Never have I ever watched someone look for something I had already thrown in the bin.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, home · secrets, betrayal, household
  793. Never have I ever turned up to a party on the wrong day.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · parties, timing
  794. Never have I ever felt relief when a partner told me they were leaving.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · feeling · failure · breakup, honesty
  795. Never have I ever uninvited someone by telling them the event was cancelled.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · socialising, lies, avoidance
  796. Never have I ever pretended to be asleep when I heard my partner crying.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · relationships, avoidance, cruelty
  797. Never have I ever left a party by climbing out of a window.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · parties, escape
  798. Never have I ever missed someone's body more than I missed them.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · verdict · sex, body · desire, exes
  799. Never have I ever cancelled on someone and gone out with somebody else.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friends, lies
  800. Never have I ever tried to make my partner dump me so I would not have to.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, sex · breakups, relationships, cowardice
  801. Never have I ever accepted money from a parent who could not afford it.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family, money · family, money
  802. Never have I ever cancelled a flight to spend another night with someone.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, money · travel, romance
  803. Never have I ever said I love you first and got silence back.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · love, rejection
  804. Never have I ever sent a corrupted file to buy more time on a deadline.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, lies
  805. Never have I ever told someone afterward that the sex had been goodbye.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · sex, breakups
  806. Never have I ever cried at a funeral for reasons nothing to do with the person.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality · grief, secrets
  807. Never have I ever changed the clock to make someone leave sooner.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · home, friendship · guests, lies
  808. Never have I ever pretended a hookup meant nothing when it meant everything.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · hookups, feelings
  809. Never have I ever been the reason someone else's relationship ended.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · affairs, guilt
  810. Never have I ever acted as a fake landlord reference for a friend.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, money, home · lies, friendship
  811. Never have I ever gone to work hungover and napped in the toilets.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work · work, hangover
  812. Never have I ever passed on a secret the second I got home.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · gossip, secrets
  813. Never have I ever let someone move away without telling them how I felt.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · love, regret
  814. Never have I ever been glad someone dumped me before I had to do it.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · breakups
  815. Never have I ever had sex the night of a funeral.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, mortality · grief, sex
  816. Never have I ever told my friends the version of the story where I was the victim.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · lying, conflict
  817. Never have I ever booked a hotel room in my own city just to be alone.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · home, family · avoidance, family, exhaustion
  818. Never have I ever used breakup sex to change someone's mind.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · breakups, sex
  819. Never have I ever rehearsed a breakup speech I never gave.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · love, cowardice
  820. Never have I ever spent the night with someone I had rejected for years.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · rejection, romance
  821. Never have I ever moved in with someone mainly to stop them leaving.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · home, failure · relationships, fear
  822. Never have I ever felt disappointed when a friend announced they were pregnant.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · past · relational · story · friendship · friendship, jealousy, parenthood
  823. Never have I ever written my own reference and had someone sign it.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work, lies
  824. Never have I ever been someone's first knowing I would not stay.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · sex, guilt
  825. Never have I ever turned up somewhere far too dressed up.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · clothes, parties
  826. Never have I ever made someone think they remembered an argument wrong to win it.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · arguments, manipulation, guilt
  827. Never have I ever screened a call from a friend because they were too sad.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friendship, avoidance
  828. Never have I ever watched a colleague get fired for something I was also doing.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, cowardice
  829. Never have I ever kept a parcel that was delivered to the wrong door.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · money, home · neighbours, petty
  830. Never have I ever accidentally regifted something back to the person who gave it to me.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · gifts, mistakes, social
  831. Never have I ever used a housemate's toothbrush and put it back.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · fact · home, body · gross, roommates
  832. Never have I ever used a hotel pool at a hotel I wasn't staying in.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · hotels, mischief
  833. Never have I ever pretended not to speak the language to end a conversation.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · travel, avoidance
  834. Never have I ever put personal shopping through as a work expense.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · fact · work, money · work, money
  835. Never have I ever pretended to understand a menu in another language and pointed randomly.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · travel, food
  836. Never have I ever bitten into something far too spicy and pretended it was fine.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · body · food, pride
  837. Never have I ever claimed I was nearly there while still getting dressed.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · lateness, fib
  838. Never have I ever spilled lunch down my front before something important.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, work · food, work
  839. Never have I ever eaten a whole meal standing at the fridge.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · fact · body, home · food, home
  840. Never have I ever queued for something without knowing what the queue was for.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · public, confusion
  841. Never have I ever made eye contact with another driver while singing.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · driving, embarrassment
  842. Never have I ever danced round the kitchen and been caught doing it.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · experience · past · solo · story · home · dancing, home
  843. Never have I ever bought a book for the cover and never opened it.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · identity · books, buying
  844. Never have I ever eaten a crisp I dropped down my own shirt.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · fact · body · food, secret
  845. Never have I ever jumped at my own reflection in a shop window.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · fact · fright, street
  846. Never have I ever made a spelling mistake in my own name.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 1 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · identity · typing, mistakes
  847. Never have I ever dropped a handful of coins while trying to pay.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 1 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · fact · money · shopping, clumsiness
  848. Never have I ever kept sleeping with someone I didn't like.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · sex, shame
  849. Never have I ever chosen a job over someone I loved.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · work, love
  850. Never have I ever eaten in my car to put off going inside.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · home · loneliness, home
  851. Never have I ever let my partner defend me when I knew I was in the wrong.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · relationships, arguments, guilt
  852. Never have I ever kissed my oldest friend the night before they moved away.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · friends, goodbyes
  853. Never have I ever made a sex playlist for someone who never came over.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · music, rejection
  854. Never have I ever decided a friend's new partner was awful within five seconds.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friendship, verdict
  855. Never have I ever dropped food on the floor and served it to someone else.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · food, secrets, cooking
  856. Never have I ever wandered into a party where I knew nobody.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · parties, gatecrashing
  857. Never have I ever listened to adults talking through a baby monitor.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family · eavesdropping, parenting, snooping
  858. Never have I ever kissed the person who was meant to set me up with their friend.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · kissing, setup
  859. Never have I ever thrown away an unopened letter from someone trying to make peace.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · grudges, regret
  860. Never have I ever kept something a dead relative wanted someone else to have.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, family · family, death
  861. Never have I ever told a friend's story as if it happened to me.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, friendship · lying, friendship
  862. Never have I ever stayed in a city I hate for one person.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · home, failure · home, love
  863. Never have I ever begged someone to stay the night.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · desire, pride
  864. Never have I ever topped up a bottle of alcohol with water.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family · drinking, mischief
  865. Never have I ever mistaken a marriage proposal for a joke.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · proposal, romance
  866. Never have I ever worked out how long my savings would last if I quit tomorrow.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, money · money, work, future
  867. Never have I ever practised my solemn face before a funeral.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality · mortality, mirror
  868. Never have I ever paused my music to listen to a couple arguing on the train.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · eavesdropping, strangers, public
  869. Never have I ever pretended not to speak English to avoid a conversation.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · strangers, avoidance
  870. Never have I ever hooked up with someone I had helped through a breakup.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, friendship · breakup, hookup
  871. Never have I ever been someone's secret for months.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, identity · affairs, secrecy
  872. Never have I ever used the exact same romantic speech on two different people.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · romance, dating, lies
  873. Never have I ever told someone they were becoming like a parent they hated.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, conflict
  874. Never have I ever stayed with someone just because we shared a lease.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · home, money · relationships, housing, cowardice
  875. Never have I ever stood still in my own kitchen until the doorbell stopped.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · home · home, avoidance
  876. Never have I ever ruthlessly cheated at a board game against a small child.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · games, cheating, family
  877. Never have I ever spent money I didn't have to look like I was fine.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · story · money, failure · money, pride
  878. Never have I ever been in love with two people at the same time.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · love
  879. Never have I ever settled for someone because I thought I could not do better.Never Have I Ever · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, identity, failure · relationships, insecurity
  880. Never have I ever slept with someone after they said they loved somebody else.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · sex, heartbreak
  881. Never have I ever kept sleeping with someone after they said they loved me.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · sex, love
  882. Never have I ever had a whole relationship my family never knew about.Never Have I Ever · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family · secrecy, family
  883. Never have I ever added my name to a group gift I did not pay for.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · money, friendship · gifts, friends
  884. Never have I ever sent a screenshot of a chat to the person who wrote it.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · technology, mistakes
  885. Never have I ever walked out of a party wearing somebody else's coat.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friendship, mistakes
  886. Never have I ever thrown away a noisy toy and told the child it broke.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, home · parenting, lies
  887. Never have I ever left a video meeting running while I went back to bed.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work, sleep
  888. Never have I ever booked a meeting room for a nap.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work · work, sleep
  889. Never have I ever put a pastry through the self-checkout as a plain croissant.Never Have I Ever · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · money · shopping, theft
  890. Never have I ever left a meeting with no idea what I had agreed to do.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work · work, failure
  891. Never have I ever kept my eyes open while everyone else was praying.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · faith, family · faith, social
  892. Never have I ever bought condoms with a basket full of decoy groceries.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · sex · sex, shopping
  893. Never have I ever planned the playlist for my own funeral.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · solo · story · mortality · mortality, future
  894. Never have I ever given myself a pep talk in a public toilet mirror.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · body, alone
  895. Never have I ever checked my balance while queuing at the bar.Never Have I Ever · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · money · money, drinking
  896. The Better Life, Plugged InThere's a machine. Lie down in it and you get the life you'd have chosen: the work going well, the person who left still there, your body behaving, your parents proud. It feels exactly like real life from the inside. You won't remember the machine. Your body is looked after. The people you leave behind are told you're fine, and in a sense you are. Would you get in?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 5 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity, mortality · happiness, reality, escape
  897. The Voice That StaysAfter your parent dies, a company offers to build a version of them from their messages, voicemails, photos and emails. It talks like them. It remembers your childhood. It asks how you slept. It's wrong sometimes, in ways that feel exactly right. It costs a small monthly fee, and it never gets tired of you calling. Would you subscribe?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · grief, technology, family
  898. The Promise You'd Take BackA friend, near the end, made you promise something. Keep the letters sealed. Don't tell their kid who the father was. Sell the house to their brother. You said yes; they died easier for it. A year on you're sure the promise is doing harm to someone living. Nobody but you knows it was ever made. Do you keep it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship · promises, death, secrets
  899. The TeleporterTravel is instant now. A booth scans every atom of you, destroys the original, and rebuilds an exact copy on Mars a second later. The copy remembers breakfast, misses the same people, has your headache. Millions use it daily and none of them complain. This morning there's a fault: the scanner works, but the original you isn't destroyed. You're standing in the booth, and someone on Mars is answering to your name. Which one of you is you?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, mortality · identity, death
  900. The PondYou're walking to work in good clothes. A small child is face down in a shallow pond, drowning. Nobody else is around. Wading in ruins your suit and shoes and makes you two hours late. Obviously you go in. Now: the same money that suit cost could, sent to the right place today, keep a child alive who you'll never meet. What's the actual difference between the two cases?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 5 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, mortality · money, obligation
  901. The Deathbed PromiseA friend dying of cancer asks you to promise something small but strange: never tell his wife about the year he spent in debt to a man she disliked. You promise. He dies. Two years later his wife is trying to make sense of a gap in their money and their history, and she asks you straight out. Do you keep the promise or tell her?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, mortality, friendship · promises, secrets
  902. The WindfallYou win £80,000 in a competition you entered alone. Your sister stopped speaking to you four years ago over something she was mostly wrong about. She's now renting a damp flat with two kids and no help coming. You have savings, no dependents, and a plan for a deposit. Do you give her some of it, and how much?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, family · money, family
  903. The PayslipBy accident you see a spreadsheet with everyone's salary. A colleague who's been there longer than you, does harder work and trained you, is paid £11,000 less. She has no idea. If you tell her, she'll be furious, she may leave, and you'll have to explain how you know. If you say nothing, nothing happens. Do you tell her?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money · work, fairness
  904. Seven SeatsA boat holds seven. There are nine of you in the water: you, someone from your family, a stranger who is a doctor, two children you don't know, and four other adults. The sea is cold and the decision has to be made in about a minute. Nobody is going to volunteer. Who do you name to stay in the water?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality, family · family, fairness, survival
  905. Before You Knew Who You'd BeYou get to redesign the rules about money and family before you're born: how much a parent can pass to a child, what school you're entitled to, who pays for whose care in old age. You write the rules first. Then you're dropped into a random life somewhere in the country you actually live in. Could be the one you have. Could be much worse. What rule would you write that would cost your actual family something?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 5 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · money, family · inheritance, fairness, class
  906. Name the Other OneSomething went wrong at work and it's traced to you. It wasn't only you; a colleague did the same thing, earlier, and nobody's noticed. Your manager offers a deal in a quiet room: give them the other name and you keep your job with a warning. Stay silent and you're out at the end of the month. Your colleague has a mortgage. So do you. Do you say the name?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, failure · work, betrayal, blame
  907. The Last ConversationYou get a single five-minute phone call with someone who has passed away. The connection is perfect. They know they are gone. They know you are calling from the present. Who do you call?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · affect · past · relational · feeling · mortality, family, friendship · grief, closure, family
  908. The RingA shepherd finds a ring that makes him invisible whenever he turns it. No cameras, no witnesses, no record. He can walk into any house, any bank, any room where people are talking about him. The story says he used it to take a kingdom. What's the first thing you'd do with the ring, honestly?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · story · identity · honesty, temptation
  909. The NovelYour best friend has spent five years writing a novel. They quit their job and drained their savings to finish it. They finally hand you the manuscript and ask for your honest opinion. You read it over the weekend. The writing is terrible. The plot makes no sense. The book has no chance of ever getting published. What do you say when they ask what you thought of it?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, work · honesty, support
  910. The Same BoatA wooden boat sits in a harbour. Every year the crew replaces a plank or two as they rot. After forty years, not a single original piece of wood is left. Meanwhile, a collector has been quietly picking the old planks out of the skip and has rebuilt them into a boat of his own, in the same shape, in a shed across town. Which one is the original boat?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · identity, objects
  911. The ReferenceA friend asks you to be a referee for a job she badly needs. You've worked with her. She's warm, funny, and unreliable in ways that landed on other people. The employer calls and asks the direct question: would you hire her again? What do you say?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, friendship · honesty, friendship
  912. The Room of SlipsA man sits alone in a sealed room with a huge rulebook. Slips of paper covered in Chinese characters come in through a slot. He looks up each shape in the book, copies out the reply it tells him to, and pushes it back through. Outside, fluent speakers are delighted: the answers are witty and warm. The man doesn't know a word of Chinese. Does anything in that room understand Chinese?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 1 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · work · mind, language
  913. Mary's Grey RoomMary has spent her whole life in a room with no colour in it. Everything is black, white or grey, including her screens and her skin. But she's the world's leading expert on colour vision. She knows every wavelength, every nerve, every last fact about what happens in a brain when it sees red. One day the door opens and she walks out into a garden of roses. Does Mary learn something new?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · body · mind, experience
  914. Who StaysA boat is going down. The lifeboat holds seven; there are ten of you. There's no rescue coming for days, so overloading it sinks everyone. The group looks at you to decide: an elderly doctor, a pregnant woman, a strong young man who is panicking, a child, and the rest ordinary adults, including you. How do you decide who gets in?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality · survival, fairness
  915. Nine Months of Your BodyYou wake up in a hospital wired to a stranger. Overnight, doctors connected your bloodstream to theirs. Their organs have failed; yours will keep them alive. In nine months they'll recover and walk away. Unplug now and they die. You didn't consent, nobody asked, and the person in the next bed is entirely innocent. You'd be in that bed for nine months. Do you unplug?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 5 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · body, mortality · body, consent, obligation
  916. The Old MessageYou find an old message that proves you seriously wronged someone years ago. They blamed another person and have since built a happy life. Telling the truth may ease your guilt, but it could reopen the whole affair for them. Would you confess now?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · guilt, honesty, past
  917. The Empty KidneyA relative needs a kidney. You are a match, and doctors say the risk to you is low but not zero. You love them, though you are not especially close. Nobody can force you to help, but everyone will know that you could have. Would you donate your kidney?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · body, family, mortality · family, body, duty
  918. The Dream JobYou are offered exactly what you have always wanted to do for a living. The pay is incredible. The hours are perfect. But the company makes a product you believe makes the world slightly worse. It is not illegal. It is just bad for people. Do you sign the contract?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, money · work, ethics, money
  919. The LeverA runaway train car is heading down a track towards five workers who can't hear it coming. You're standing beside a lever. Pull it and the car switches to a side track, where one worker is standing. Nobody else is around. You have about four seconds. Do you pull the lever?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 5 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality · ethics, choice
  920. The Spare RoomYour father cannot live alone any more. There is a home forty minutes away that is clean and grim, and there is your spare room. If he moves in, you lose the room, most evenings, and the version of your house you like. If he goes to the home, he will be looked after by people who are paid to and he will know that is what happened. Does he move in?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, home · family, ageing, care
  921. The Sealed AnswerAn envelope arrives with your name on it. Inside is a true answer to one question about one person you love. Whatever the question, the answer is honest and complete, and neither of you will ever discuss it. You can also burn the envelope unopened and the offer never comes back. Whose name is on your question, and what is the question?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, friendship · truth, love, fear
  922. The WillYour parents leave you sixty percent and your brother forty. No explanation in the will. He has less money than you and two kids. You suspect you know why they did it, and it isn't flattering to him. Do you split it evenly anyway?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, family · family, money
  923. The Other TableYou're out for lunch and you see your friend's husband across the room, holding hands with someone who isn't her. He hasn't seen you. You've known her twelve years. You know she's been happy lately. Do you tell her?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, sex · friends, honesty
  924. What You Know About the GroomYour closest friend is getting married in five weeks. You know for certain that her fiancé slept with someone else in the spring. You know because he told you, drunk, and then asked you to keep it between the two of you. She has spent a year happier than you have ever seen her. Do you tell her before the wedding?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship, sex · friendship, secrets, loyalty
  925. The Friend You'd Let FadeYou are told, plainly, that you have room for three close people. Not family, not your partner. Three. The rest become birthday messages and a drink once every couple of years, and they will feel the change even if they never name it. Who are the three, and who is the first to drop off?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, time, loss
  926. Your Own InstructionsYou are asked to write down, tonight, how much of you can be gone before someone is allowed to stop the machines. Not in general terms. In your handwriting, with the line drawn: can't speak, can't recognise anyone, can't feed yourself, can't stop the pain. The paper will be shown to your family on the worst day of their lives. Where do you draw the line?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family, body · death, body, family
  927. The BillSix of you at dinner. You had a salad and tap water. Two of them ordered steak and three bottles of wine. The bill lands and someone says, cheerfully, let's just split it six ways. It's forty quid more than you owe. Do you say anything?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, friends
  928. The DentYou're reversing out of a tight car park and you hear it. A long scrape down the door of the car next to you. Empty car park, no cameras you can see. Your insurance is already up for renewal and the excess is more than the repair. Do you leave the note?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, failure · honesty, money
  929. The HandwritingYou find a notebook in a box in your parents' attic. It's your handwriting, from when you were fifteen. Pages of it. Opinions, a fight with a friend, a whole week at the sea. You don't remember writing any of it, and you don't remember the week. Did that week happen to you?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · past · solo · verdict · identity · memory, identity
  930. Three Days of PainA call comes: you are a marrow match for a stranger. It means needles in your hip bone, a week where walking hurts, and a few days off work you would rather not take. The stranger is thirty-one. You will never learn their name and they will never learn yours. You can also just say no and nobody will ever ask you again. Do you take the call?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · body, mortality · body, strangers, sacrifice
  931. The Cash Your Brother Wants BackYour brother gave you his savings to hold six months ago because he did not trust himself with it. He has been sober since. Tonight he turns up and asks for it back, calm, reasonable, saying he is fine now and it is his money. You think he will spend it in a fortnight. You have no legal right to keep it. Do you give him the money?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, addiction, trust
  932. The Test ResultA test can tell you whether you are likely to develop a fatal illness in twenty years. There is no cure yet. The result could shape your work, your relationships, and whether you have children. You can take the test now or never know. Would you take the test?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality, body · health, future, fear
  933. The BetSomeone tells you: live as if God is real. If you're right, you gain everything forever. If you're wrong, you lost some Sunday mornings and a few pleasures. Live as if there's nothing, and the upside is small, the downside is infinite. The maths says believe. Can you choose to believe something because the odds are good?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · faith · faith, risk
  934. The New SongA singer you love died years ago. Their label feeds every recording they ever made into a machine and it writes and sings a new song in their voice. It's good. It sounds like them on a strong day. Fans can't tell, and the family gave permission. Is that their song?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · work · music, copies
  935. Same DogYour dog dies at fourteen. A company offers a clone: same genes, same breed, same markings, raised from a puppy. It won't remember you. It won't know the walk to the park or the sound of your car. But it will look up at you with that face. Do you get the dog?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality · copies, grief, animals
  936. The Email That Costs You the JobYou find a spreadsheet at work that shows your company has been overcharging its oldest customers for years. Small amounts, thousands of people. If you send it to the regulator, you will be found out inside a month, and your name will follow you around the industry. Nobody else who has seen the file has done anything about it. Do you send it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money · work, integrity, money
  937. The Bad RehearsalA colleague rehearses an important pitch for you. It is poor, but the meeting starts in an hour. They ask whether you think it will go well. Honest criticism may shake them. Reassurance may send them in unprepared. What do you tell them?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · work · work, honesty, ambition
  938. Your Father's DoorA parent who failed you is old and can no longer live alone. They ask to move into your home. You can afford the care, but living together may take over your daily life. No other relative will step in. Would you let them move in?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, home · family, care, resentment
  939. The BridgeSame runaway train, five people on the track. This time you're on a footbridge above it with a heavy stranger leaning on the rail. If you push him off, his body stops the train. Five live, he dies. Nobody would ever know it was you. Do you push him?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality · harm, choice
  940. The ReviewThe café on your street got your order wrong twice and the owner was rude about it. You write what happened, honestly, and post it. They have eleven reviews. Yours drops them below four stars. The place is barely surviving as it is. Do you post it?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, work · honesty, strangers
  941. The ForgeryA painting hangs in a museum. Millions of people have stood in front of it and been moved. Then it comes out that it's a copy, painted forty years ago by a student who was very good. The original burned in a fire. Nothing about the canvas on the wall has changed since yesterday. Should they take it down?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · art, authenticity
  942. The Phone KnowsYour phone holds the birthdays, the routes, the passwords, the photos of the day you couldn't describe otherwise. You don't remember any of it because you don't have to. Then it goes into a river. Did you lose your things, or part of your mind?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · memory, technology
  943. The Time BetA stranger offers you ten million dollars, tax-free. You get the money right now. In exchange, he gets to take one hour of your life from the past. You will not know which hour he takes. Whatever you did during that hour never happened. Do you take the money?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money · time, money, risk
  944. The Replacement JobYour boss offers you a new deal. You will get paid double your current salary. In exchange, you will never have another original idea at work. You will only execute tasks handed to you by someone younger than you. You cannot quit for ten years. Do you take the deal?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · work, money, identity · work, pride, money
  945. The Shortened DayYou are offered a pill that gives you one extra hour every day. You will not need to sleep during this hour. You will feel rested. But for every day you take the pill, your total lifespan is shortened by two days. How many days a week do you take it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · mortality, body · time, mortality, work
  946. The Forgotten LoanYears ago, a friend lent you a large sum when you were struggling. They now earn far more than you and seem to have forgotten the loan. Paying it back this month would put you in trouble. Do you remind them that you owe it?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, debt, friendship
  947. Tomorrow's CutsYou learn that a colleague will lose their job tomorrow. You were told in confidence. If you warn them, they can copy files and prepare. Your own job could be at risk if anyone finds out. Do you warn them?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work · work, loyalty, risk
  948. The Last PlaceYou can fund one place on a training course. One applicant has worked harder and scored higher. The other had fewer chances growing up and would gain more from being chosen. Who gets the place?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work · fairness, opportunity, merit
  949. The Salary LineYou learn that a colleague doing the same work earns far less than you. Your manager offers to raise their pay only if your next raise is cut in half. Nobody else will know what you chose. Would you give up half your raise?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money · work, money, fairness
  950. The SummaryYour friend can talk about a famous novel for twenty minutes. The plot, the ending, why the second half is weaker, the line everyone quotes. They've read three reviews and a long summary. They have never opened the book. At a dinner, someone asks if they've read it and they say yes. Is that a lie?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · knowledge, honesty
  951. One GrainThere's a pile of sand on the table. A thousand grains. Take one away and it's still a pile. Take another and it's still a pile. Nobody would ever say a single grain is what ended it. Keep going. Eventually there are three grains sitting there, and nobody would call that a pile. Which grain turned the pile into not a pile?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 5 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · language, logic
  952. The Memory DownloadYou can buy a memory chip that lets you instantly speak fluent Italian. But to make room in your brain, it permanently wipes out your memory of every movie you have ever seen. Do you plug it in?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · memory, skills, tradeoffs
  953. Yesterday's PetYou raise a digital pet for five years. It learns your habits and reacts to its name. One day its data is lost. The company restores a backup from the day before. The restored pet remembers everything except its final day. Is it the same pet?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · past · relational · verdict · identity, technology, memory
  954. The Museum LabelA plain black stone sits in a museum under a label saying it came from Mars. Millions of people visit it. Years later, the label is found to be wrong. The stone came from a local quarry. Did the stone lose its value?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · objects, value, belief
  955. The Last MovementA composer dies with a symphony unfinished. A computer studies every piece she wrote and completes the final movement. Her closest friends say it sounds like her best work. Who wrote the symphony?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · past · solo · verdict · work · authorship, music, technology
  956. Who Pays for MumYour mother needs care she can't pay for. The cost splits three ways between you and your siblings on paper, but you earn more than both of them and one of them has kids. Nobody has said out loud who pays what. Someone has to speak first at the kitchen table on Sunday. What split do you propose, and do you say your own number first?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, money, care
  957. Both Phones UnlockedYou and your partner sit down and swap phones for an hour. Everything: messages, searches, deleted photos, what you say about each other to other people. It's mutual and it's once. Whatever's in there, you both agree not to leave over it. Do you hand yours over?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex, identity · trust, secrets, love
  958. Your Friend's MessagesAfter your closest friend dies, you receive access to their private messages. One folder bears your name. Opening it may change how you remember them. Deleting it means choosing not to know what they said about you. Would you open the folder?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · process · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship · friendship, privacy, death
  959. The One Who CallsA friend only calls when they are in danger of hurting themselves. Each call keeps you awake for hours. They refuse help from anyone else. You can keep answering, or tell them you will call emergency services next time. Would you answer the next call?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, mortality · friendship, duty, crisis
  960. The City You Won't Move ToYour partner is offered the thing they've been working toward for years. It's in a city where you know nobody, your work doesn't transfer, and your parents are eight hours further away. They say they won't take it unless you're happy about it. They mean it, and that's the problem. Do you tell them to take it, and is that a lie?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · home, work · love, sacrifice, work
  961. The Machine CookA machine can build a plate of your grandmother's stew from scratch, matching the real thing down to the last molecule. Same taste, same steam, same burnt bit at the edge. It takes nine seconds and costs almost nothing. Would you rather eat that or her actual cooking?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · family, identity · food, copies
  962. The Same MugThe mug you've drunk from every morning for ten years slips and breaks. You find that the factory still makes it. The replacement arrives, same batch, same weight, same chip-free rim, indistinguishable from yours on day one. What did you lose?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · home · objects, attachment
  963. The Home VideoYou've told the story of the beach and the red bucket your whole life. It's your earliest memory. Then someone digs out a family tape and there it is, filmed from the angle you always pictured. You were eighteen months old. Is it still your memory?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · solo · verdict · family, identity · memory, childhood
  964. The SwapOvernight, everything in your head moves into a stranger's body across town. Your memories, your habits, the way you laugh. Your old body wakes up with all of their memories and heads to their job. Which one goes home to your bed?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · identity, body
  965. The Empty SeatYou and your partner are waiting for an overbooked flight. The airline offers enough money to cover a month of rent if one of you travels tomorrow. Your partner wants you both to stay on the flight. You need the money more than they do. Do you take the offer?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money · money, travel, partnership
  966. The Partner's PhoneYour partner is in the shower. Their phone lights up with a text from an ex they promised they stopped talking to. The preview cuts off mid-sentence. You know their passcode. Do you unlock the phone?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex, failure · trust, romance, privacy
  967. Your Mother's KeysYour mother has begun getting lost while driving. She insists she is safe. A doctor will report her if you describe what has happened, and she will lose her licence. She lives where a car is her last bit of freedom. Would you tell the doctor?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, mortality · family, ageing, safety
  968. Your Sister's SignatureYour sister needs you to guarantee a loan. If her plan works, she keeps her home. If it fails, you take on a debt that would set you back for years. She says nobody else will help. Would you sign?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, debt, trust
  969. Your Brother's CrimeYou find proof that your brother committed a serious crime years ago. Someone else served time for it. Reporting him would clear that person, but your brother now has children who depend on him. Would you turn him in?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, failure · family, justice, loyalty
  970. The Last EmbryoYou and your partner have one embryo left after years of trying for a child. A test shows a high chance of a painful illness that begins in middle age. This is your last chance to have a child who is related to both of you. Would you use the embryo?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, body · parenthood, illness, choice
  971. The KeysA friend has had four drinks and is looking for their car keys. They've done this before and got home fine. If you take the keys you'll embarrass them in front of people, and they'll be cold with you for months. If you say nothing, most likely they get home fine again. Do you take the keys?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friends, risk, courage
  972. No One Ever KnowsYou can give away any amount you like to something that matters. One condition: it's fully anonymous, and you can never mention it to anyone, ever. No thank-you letter, no name on a wall, no telling your partner years later. Does the amount you'd give change?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, identity · money, ego, giving
  973. The Anger SwitchA one-time procedure removes your ability to feel anger. You'll still notice unfairness and still be able to say something about it. You just won't burn. Everyone who's ever been on the wrong end of your temper would be relieved. Do you do it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · temper, self, family
  974. Fire Your FriendCuts are coming. Your boss tells you privately: pick one person from your team, or the decision gets made above you and it'll be two people, one of them you. Your closest friend at work is the weakest performer on paper and the reason you've stayed as long as you have. Do you write down their name?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, friendship · work, loyalty, betrayal
  975. The Money You Know He'll DrinkYour brother asks for two hundred. He says it's for the electric bill. You're fairly sure it isn't. If you say no he'll get it somewhere worse, and he'll stop calling you. If you say yes you're paying for the thing that's killing him. Do you give him the money?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · family, money · family, addiction, money
  976. A Year at the BedsideA relative is dying slowly and needs someone with them daily. You can do it yourself: quit for a year, empty your savings, be the one holding the cup. Or you can keep working and pay a stranger who is patient and good at this, and visit on weekends. Which do you choose?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality, money · death, family, care
  977. Five Minutes OldThe universe started five minutes ago. It came into being complete: your half-finished coffee, the scuffs on your shoes, the ache in your knee, and every memory you have of a childhood that never happened. Can you prove it didn't?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 5 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · faith, identity · memory, doubt
  978. The UnderstudyA famous singer loses her voice an hour before the show. The understudy sings the whole set from behind a screen, sounding near enough identical. The crowd roars, goes home happy, and posts about the best night of the tour. Nobody tells them. Were they cheated?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · work, identity · authenticity, music
  979. Told It's a SimulationTomorrow morning it's confirmed beyond doubt: all of this is running on something, somewhere. No glitch, no exit, no contact from whoever built it. Everything looks and feels the way it did yesterday. What do you do differently that day?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · future · solo · verdict · faith, mortality · reality, meaning
  980. The Aging ParentsYour parents are losing their memory and can no longer live alone. The only good care facility in town costs exactly the amount you have saved for your kids' college. Do you spend the kids' college money on your parents?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, money, duty
  981. The Regret MeterA screen in a clinic will tell you one number: how much you'll regret your decision about having children, ten years from now. Not whether you'll be happy. Just how much of the other life you'll be mourning. It's free, it's accurate, and you can only look once. Do you look?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · future · relational · verdict · family, failure · children, regret, future
  982. The Bot That Calls Your MotherAn app learns your voice and your phrases well enough to hold a twenty-minute phone call. It rings your mother every Sunday, asks about her week, remembers her neighbour's name. She's happy. She has no idea. Your actual calls had dropped to one a month. Do you switch it on?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · family, failure · family, technology, duty
  983. The SlotYour kid needs a place at a good nursery and the list is two years long. Your aunt knows the woman who runs it and one phone call moves you to the front. Nobody will ever be told why. Someone who has been waiting since before your child was born goes back one place. Do you make the call?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, fairness
  984. The Staff DiscountYou're at the till with a full trolley. The cashier is a friend of a friend. Without asking, she scans her staff card and takes forty percent off. She smiles like it's nothing. The store loses about sixty pounds. If it's noticed on the audit, she loses the job, not you. Do you let it go through?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, work · money, complicity
  985. The ApplicationYou've found the flat. The landlord wants proof you earn three times the rent and you earn slightly less. One number changed on one document and it's yours. The only other applicants are a couple with a baby who earn less than you. The landlord will never check. Do you change the number?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home, failure · money, honesty
  986. The Better CandidateYou're one of three people hiring. Your closest friend applies and she's good, maybe fourth best. She's been out of work eleven months and you know what it's doing to her. You can't hand her the job, but you can speak warmly and let a doubt about the front-runner sit there unanswered. Do you stay quiet about your doubt?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, friendship · friendship, work
  987. Your RedWhen you look at a fire engine, maybe you see what I'd see looking at grass. We both learned to call fire engines red, so we'd never catch the difference in conversation, and neither of us would ever hesitate. Is there any way to find out?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · colour, mind
  988. The TranslationA poem you love was written in a language you don't speak. The translator swapped images, changed a river to a road, and invented a line to keep the rhyme working in English. Readers in both languages say it's beautiful. Whose poem have you been loving?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · language, authorship
  989. The QueueYou have waited an hour for concert tickets. A friend arrives just before sales begin and asks to join you. The people behind you have waited just as long. If your friend goes to the back, the tickets may sell out before they reach the counter. Do you let your friend in?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · fairness, friendship
  990. The CancellationYou work for yourself and require payment when a client cancels on the day. A client cancels because their child is in hospital. You turned down other work for that time. They ask you to waive the fee. Do you charge them?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money · money, work, compassion
  991. UnseenYou find a plain gold ring on the ground. When you put it on and turn it, you become invisible. No one can see you, hear you, or ever track what you do while wearing it. You can take what you want and listen to whatever is said. There are no cameras that can catch you. What is the first illegal thing you do?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · solo · verdict · power, rules, temptation
  992. The Memory of ShameA doctor offers you a pill that permanently erases your memory of your worst humiliation. Nobody else's memory is affected. Do you take the pill?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · failure, identity · shame, memory, identity
  993. The Dog or the FeesYour dog needs an operation that may buy two good years. It costs the same amount your niece needs to stay in college. You can pay for only one. Your niece does not know about the choice. Where would the money go?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · pets, family, money
  994. The Family StoryYou learn that the story your family tells about how one relative died is false. The truth would clear someone who has carried the blame for years. It would also expose someone who is still alive. Would you tell the family?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, truth, blame
  995. The RotaYou're asked to write the Christmas shift schedule for your team of six. Two must work the holiday. One colleague has small children. One has nobody and says he doesn't mind. One asked you first, back in August. You also get to decide whether your own name goes on it. Who works Christmas?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work · work, fairness
  996. The Sick NoteYou wake up flattened. Not ill, just done. You text work that you've got a stomach bug. It's believed instantly. The cost lands on one colleague, who cancels her afternoon and covers your calls. If you'd told the truth, the answer would probably have been to come in anyway. Do you send the text?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work · work, honesty
  997. Everything DoublesTonight, while everyone sleeps, everything doubles in size. You, your bed, the coffee cup, the ruler in the drawer, the planet, the distance between stars. Every measurement comes out the same in the morning because the measuring sticks grew too. Did anything happen?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · reality, measurement
  998. The Full-Size MapA city decides to make the most accurate map ever drawn. It ends up the same size as the city, laid over the streets, matching every kerb and lamppost. People start walking on it. Is it a map or is it just the city again?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · copies, meaning
  999. The AssistYou enter an online tournament. The software on your machine plays about half your moves, the hard ones, and you play the rest. You win the whole thing. The trophy has your name on it. Did you win?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · cheating, machines
  1000. The Last SpeakerOnly one person can speak a dying language. She invents a new word and tells nobody what it means. She dies the next day. Did the word ever have a meaning?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · past · solo · verdict · mortality · language, meaning
  1001. The Borrowed DetectiveA novelist dies halfway through a detective series. Another writer continues it. Readers say the detective behaves just as he always did. Is it the same character?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · fiction, identity
  1002. The ExpensesYour manager pads the team's expense claims. Dinners that didn't happen, taxis nobody took. The money comes back as the team bonus and your share is about eight hundred pounds a year. Everyone knows. Nobody says it. The company is huge and nobody is hurt in a way you can point at. Do you take the bonus?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money · work, money
  1003. The DoorbellParcels keep arriving for whoever lived in your flat before you. You've sent a few back. Then a heavy one comes: a laptop, still sealed, worth about a thousand. No forwarding address, no phone number, and the sender's returns window has closed. It sits in your hallway for a week. What happens to the laptop?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, home · money, honesty
  1004. Everyone Says It WrongA word gets used the wrong way by enough people for long enough that dictionaries give in and print the new meaning. Teachers stop correcting it. Now the old meaning is the one that sounds odd. When exactly did the word change meaning?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · language, change
  1005. The Hidden ConstellationA child joins seven stars with lines and gives the shape a name. No one else has grouped those stars before. Did the child discover something or invent it?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · past · solo · verdict · reality, discovery
  1006. The Imaginary IslandA mapmaker adds a made-up island to catch anyone copying his map. Sailors begin telling stories about the island. Decades later, tourists ask to visit it. Does the island exist in any useful sense?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · maps, reality
  1007. The Unknown RuleA village has played the same ball game for generations. During one match, something happens that no rule covers. Half the village says the move is allowed. Half says it is forbidden. Was the move legal before they argued about it?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · past · solo · verdict · rules, logic
  1008. Halfway AgainTo reach the far wall you first have to cross half the room. Then half of what's left. Then half of that. There's always another half to cross, so the crossing has an endless number of steps in it. How do you ever touch the wall?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · logic, infinity
  1009. Nobody ListeningA tree comes down in a forest hundreds of miles from anyone. Air moves, branches crack, the ground shakes a little. No ear is anywhere near it. Was there a sound?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · perception, reality
  1010. The Lucky PasswordMina types a stranger's birthday into a locked computer. She has no reason to choose it. The computer opens because the birthday is the password. Did Mina know the password?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · knowledge, luck
  1011. The Unplayed GameArchaeologists find a board, pieces and a book of rules. The rules are clear, but there is no sign that anyone ever played. Have they found a game?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · present · solo · verdict · games, rules
  1012. The Wrong BoxA massive box arrives at your door. It has your address but someone else's name. Inside is a high-end espresso machine worth over a thousand dollars. You wait a month. Nobody comes looking for it. The retailer has no record of the order under your name. Do you keep it?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, home · honesty, property, temptation
  1013. The Ad You'd WriteA job offers you double your salary. The work is writing ads that get people gambling again after they've stopped. You'd be good at it. The money would cover treatment a family member needs and can't afford, with years to spare. Do you take it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · work, family, money · work, money, complicity
  1014. The Perfect AlibiYour closest friend shows up at your back door at two in the morning covered in blood. They say they killed someone who ruined their life, and they need you to swear they were watching a movie with you. Do you lie to the police for them?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship · loyalty, crime, friendship
  1015. The Body MarketYou can sell one year of your healthy lifespan to a billionaire for half a million dollars, tax-free. They live a year longer; you die a year earlier than you would have. You can do this as many times as you want. How many years do you sell?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · future · solo · verdict · money, mortality · mortality, money, body
  1016. The Animal LifeYour dog is dying of a rare disease. Your vet can cure them completely, giving them another five happy years. But the procedure requires killing a healthy stray dog from the pound. Do you kill the stray to save your dog?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · mortality · pets, morality, sacrifice
  1017. The Anonymous BetrayalYou find out your partner's ex cheated on them right before they broke up. Your partner doesn't know. Finding out now would ruin their trust in people, but it would explain a lot of lies they were told. Do you tell your partner?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · secrets, romance, truth
  1018. The Undeserved AwardYou win an industry award and fifty thousand dollars for a solo project. Just before the ceremony, you realize you accidentally copied the core idea from a rival. Nobody else will ever find out. Do you give the award back?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money, failure · career, pride, honesty
  1019. The House VetoYou and your partner are buying a house. You find the perfect one, but your partner hates it. They find theirs, but you hate it. The agent says you have to compromise today or lose both. Who caves?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · home · romance, compromise, home
  1020. The Childhood BullyThe person who bullied you most brutally in school has lost everything. They reach out and ask you for a job at your company. You are the only person who can hire them, and they are qualified. Do you give them the job?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, failure · revenge, forgiveness, work
  1021. The WalkoutYour coworkers plan to walk out over pay. Joining them may win better terms for everyone, but you are the only person on your team who could not manage a month without wages. If you stay at work, the walkout may fail. Would you join them?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money · work, money, solidarity
  1022. Ten Hours, One NameYou get back every hour you spend on your phone this week. Ten hours, maybe more. There's one condition: all of it has to go to one person, in the room with them, and you have to write the name down now. Whose name do you write?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · time, attention, love
  1023. The Found WalletYou find a wallet on the sidewalk containing five thousand dollars in cash. The ID belongs to someone you know is a bad person who ruined a friend's life. Do you keep the cash?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money · money, revenge, morality
  1024. The Child You Won't HaveYour partner wants a child. You don't, or you don't enough, and you've been saying 'not yet' for four years. There's a window and both of you know roughly when it closes. Whatever happens next, one of you gives up something they won't get back, and you'll stay together either way. Which of you gives it up?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · love, children, sacrifice
  1025. The Replaced BearYou had a bear until you were nine. You still have it, in a box at your mum's. At Christmas she tells you the truth: you lost the bear in a car park when you were four, and she drove to three shops that night to find the same one. She swapped it while you slept. You never noticed. Thirty years of that bear being the thing that got you through hospital and your parents' divorce, and it's the second bear. Did you lose the bear when you were four, or just now, at the table?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · story · family · objects, memory, childhood
  1026. The Long DreamYou fall asleep at eleven and wake at seven. In between you lived forty years: a different name, a house by water, children whose faces you'd know anywhere, a slow illness, a funeral that was yours. You wake up crying about a daughter who doesn't exist. By lunchtime you can only remember four of the forty years. Did you have those forty years?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · mortality · dreams, experience, identity
  1027. Two HolidaysYou and your sister both remember the week in the caravan. You remember rain for six days and your dad furious about the awning. She remembers sun, and a dog on the beach, and dad laughing. You've each told your version for twenty years. Then you find the photos. Hers match. Was your memory ever a memory, or something you built and kept?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · story · family · memory, family, truth
  1028. The CatYou're driving home along a dark road and something runs out. You feel the bump. You stop. It's a cat, with a collar, and it's dead. There's a row of houses fifty metres back. It's half eleven at night and no one saw. You could knock on doors until you find whose it is, or you could move it onto the verge and drive off. Do you knock?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality · harm, honesty
  1029. The Stag DoYour oldest friend is getting married. The trip is four days abroad and it comes to about £600 once you count flights and the meal. You don't have it. You could put it on a credit card and feel it for six months, or you could say no. Everyone else in the group has already paid. Do you tell them the real reason you can't come?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, money · money, friends
  1030. The FundraiserSomeone you know a little, a friend of a friend, has had a bad year and there's a page collecting money for them. The page lists every name and every amount. You can see one person gave £200 and several gave £50. You were going to give £10. Your name will sit under the others for as long as the page is up. What do you give?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, reputation
  1031. The ScreenshotIn a group chat of six, someone pastes in a screenshot of a private message. It's from a friend of yours who isn't in the group, complaining about one of the people who is. Everyone starts replying. Your friend doesn't know it's out there. You could tell them, tell the group off, or say nothing and let it move on. What do you do?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, loyalty
  1032. The Poem by NobodyYou read six lines about your grandmother's hands and your eyes go. You read them again on the bus. Later you find out no one wrote them: a machine produced them in a second, having never had a grandmother, never had hands, and it produced nine hundred other versions that nobody read. Was the thing you felt on the bus a mistake?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · past · solo · verdict · family · art, meaning, machines
  1033. The Long Way RoundYou're in a taxi from the airport, late at night, watching the route on your phone. Ten minutes in you can see the driver has gone a way that will add about £15 to the fare. He might have done it on purpose. He might not. He's chatty and has told you about his kids. The meter keeps running. Do you say something?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money · money, strangers
  1034. The ChangeA woman on a market stall sells you £6 of vegetables. You hand over a twenty and she counts out change for a fifty. She's slow with her hands and there's a queue behind you. You're already three steps away when you work out she's given you £30 too much. She looks like the stall is hers, not a company's. Do you turn around?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money · money, honesty
  1035. Before Anyone CountedLong before there were people, there were seven somethings standing in a valley. Nobody was there to count them. No one had invented the word seven, or the idea of seven, or any way of noticing that four of them and three of them made the whole group. Were there seven, or did seven arrive with us?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 5 · emo 1 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · past · solo · verdict · numbers, reality, knowledge
  1036. The Misspelled NameYour name has one letter wrong on your birth certificate. A tired clerk in 1991. It's been copied onto your passport, your bank cards, your degree, your payslips. Everyone who knows you says it the other way, the way your parents meant it. Nobody has ever written it that way on anything official. Which one is your name?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · names, identity, language
  1037. The BikeIt's the middle of the afternoon on a busy street. A man in shorts is crouched over a bike, cutting through the lock with a small angle grinder. He's not hiding. People are walking past. He glances up at you, unbothered, and keeps going. It could be his own bike and his own lost key. What do you do in the next ten seconds?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure · strangers, courage
  1038. The Double BookingYou agree to help a friend move house on a Saturday morning. On Friday night, someone you have been trying to date for six months asks you out for a day trip, and it has to be Saturday. Your friend has no money for a removal van but has a few other people helping. Do you lie and say you are sick?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · promises, loyalty
  1039. The Group HolidayYou organise a weekend away for six friends. You book the house on your card, putting £600 down. Everyone agrees to pay you back £100. Five do. The sixth friend recently lost their job and has been quiet in the group chat for weeks. Do you ask them for the money?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, friends
  1040. The Stray DogYou are driving to an important job interview that will change your career. You are already running five minutes late. On a quiet country road, you see a dog with a collar wandering loose near the traffic. There are no houses in sight. Do you stop the car?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, mortality · harm, sacrifice
  1041. The BalanceYour money is a number on a screen. There's no drawer somewhere with your name on it and your notes inside. The bank has lent most of it out to strangers. If everyone asked for theirs on the same Tuesday, the number would turn out to be a promise rather than a thing. Still, you check it, you feel better or worse, you plan your year around it. Is the money in your account a real object, or a story everyone agrees to keep telling?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · money · money, reality
  1042. The Last MemberA band you love has been going forty years. The singer left in 1994, the guitarist died, the bassist quit twice and never came back. Last month the drummer retired. The tour is still booked, the name is still on the ticket, the songs are the same songs, and four people you've never heard of are playing them well. Is that still the band?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, music
  1043. The Author Says NoYou've read the book four times. Two characters are in love; the whole thing only works if they are. Then the writer does an interview and says flatly that they were never in love, she never intended it, and readers keep getting it wrong. Who decides what happened in the book?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · stories, meaning, interpretation
  1044. One Second AheadA screen in front of you shows a live feed of your own hands, delayed by nothing, plus a small line of text that appears one second before you act. You're going to pick up either the red pen or the blue one. The text says RED. You feel like the choice is still open. You reach for blue. The text updates, one second before, and says BLUE. Are you choosing, or watching?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 5 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · choice, prediction
  1045. The Wrong SpeedYou've loved a song since you were fifteen. You've heard it maybe two thousand times. Last week you learn the upload you grew up on was slightly sped up to dodge a copyright bot. You play the real one. It drags. The voice is lower. It's the wrong song and it's the only real one. Which one is the song?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · music, originals, identity
  1046. Tuesday NightYour friend tells their partner they were with you last Tuesday. They were not. The partner texts you: “Did you two have a good night?” You know the truth may end the relationship. Do you cover for your friend?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, sex · loyalty, lying, love
  1047. The Cracked FrameYou sell your old bike online for £250. As the buyer loads it into their car, you spot a thin crack near the back wheel. You had never noticed it before. They have already paid and driven two hours to collect it. Do you point out the crack?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, body · money, honesty, risk
  1048. The Holiday HouseSix friends book a house for July. Each pays £300. A week before the trip, Maya pulls out after losing her job and asks for her share back. The booking cannot be changed. Refunding her means the other five pay £60 more each. Do you refund Maya?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · friendship, money, fairness
  1049. The Broken WindowYour son kicks a football through the neighbour’s window. No one sees it happen. Minutes later, another child is blamed because their ball is found in the garden. Replacing the glass will cost you £400. Do you say your son did it?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, honesty, money
  1050. The ScratchcardYou buy a birthday card for a friend of a friend, and tuck a £5 scratchcard inside it as a joke. At the pub, they scratch it in front of you. They win ten thousand pounds. They scream, hug you, and offer to buy the first round of drinks. Do you expect a cut of the money?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, expectations
  1051. The Shared SecretA friend tells you in strict confidence that their partner is cheating on them, and they are preparing to leave. Two days later, the cheating partner corners you at a party, crying, and asks if you know why your friend is being so distant. Do you play dumb to protect the exit plan?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, sex · loyalty, lies
  1052. The Open LetterYou are doing a favour looking after your neighbour's sleeping child for the evening. You go into the kitchen for a glass of water. On the table, open and facing up, is a handwritten letter that starts with 'I cannot live like this anymore.' Do you read the rest of the letter?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · mortality, family · privacy, temptation
  1053. The Paused CenturyEverything stops. Every atom, every clock, every thought, including yours. Nothing moves and nothing changes anywhere. Then, a hundred years later by no one's reckoning, it all starts again exactly where it left off. You're mid-sentence and you finish the sentence. Did a hundred years pass, or nothing at all?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 5 · emo 1 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · mortality · time, reality
  1054. The Wedding Plus OneYou are invited to an expensive wedding. The invitation gives you a plus one. You are single, but you have a chaotic friend who loves free wine and would make the night hilarious. The bride and groom do not know them well. Do you bring the chaotic friend to entertain yourself?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, etiquette
  1055. Three Legs OffYour kitchen chair loses a leg. You keep it. It loses two more and you lean it in the corner and pile books on the seat. Then you take the seat off and use the plank as a shelf. Someone visiting asks what the plank is. At which moment did it stop being a chair?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 4 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 1 · position · past · solo · verdict · home · objects, identity, language
  1056. The Joke Without an AuthorYou tell a joke at dinner. Your friend laughs and says they told you the same joke last summer. You have no memory of hearing it and thought of the wording on the bus that morning. Whose joke was it?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · position · past · relational · verdict · friendship · memory, authorship
  1057. The Missing ItemAt the supermarket, you notice the cashier has missed the £40 bottle beneath your bag. Your receipt is already in your hand. Going back will make you late to collect your niece. Do you go back and pay?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, family · money, honesty, duty
  1058. The Last TrainYou have a rail pass that lets one guest travel free. On the last train home, a stranger says the ticket machine took their money but gave no ticket. The inspector is coming. Lending your guest pass breaks the rules and could get both of you fined. Do you add the stranger to your pass?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money · rules, strangers, risk
  1059. The Mispriced ItemYou are buying a vacuum cleaner at a self-checkout. It scans at £15 instead of £150. The store is a large national supermarket. The red light flashes for an assistant to approve the unexpected weight. A tired teenager walks over, blindly swipes their card to clear the error, and starts to walk away. Do you tell them the price is wrong?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, work · money, honesty
  1060. The Train TicketYou board a busy train and realise you forgot to buy a ticket. The conductor is making his way down the aisle checking phones. The person next to you gets off at the next stop and leaves a valid, unpunched paper ticket on the table. Do you pick it up and present it as your own?Thought Experiments · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money · rules, honesty
  1061. Split EvenlyYou earn about three times what your oldest friend earns. Every time you eat together the bill lands in the middle and gets split down the middle, and he reaches for it fast, before anyone can suggest otherwise. You've watched him pick the cheapest thing on the menu and then pay for half of your fish. Do you say anything?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · friendship, money, class
  1062. One Coffee Before the WeddingThe one you never got over is getting married in three weeks. They message: one coffee, an hour, then they're gone for good and they won't ask again. You're with someone now and it's good. You wouldn't do anything. You'd just go. Do you go?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex, failure · love, loyalty, longing
  1063. The WatchYour dad's watch. He wore it for thirty years and you've had it in a drawer since the funeral. Your brother rings and says he's been thinking about it a lot, that he'd wear it every day, and could he have it. He probably would wear it. You'd keep it in the drawer. Does he get the watch?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, grief, objects
  1064. The Unequal WillYour parents die and the will leaves you sixty percent and your sister forty. You were the one who drove them to appointments, who called on Sundays, who took the phone calls at 2am. She lives four hours away and came at Christmas. The solicitor says nothing has to change unless you want it to. Do you even it up?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, money, fairness
  1065. What He Says to HerYou've watched your friend's boyfriend talk to her the way you wouldn't talk to anyone. Nothing you could take to anybody. She knows you've seen it. Last month she asked you, in the nicest way, to stop bringing it up, because she's staying and she'd like to keep you. Do you keep bringing it up?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, love, honesty
  1066. The Son on the SofaHe's thirty one. This is the third time he's asked to come home, and each time it was going to be a few months. You'd have to move the desk out again, and you'd hear him up at three, and you'd be lending him money by February. He has nowhere else to be by Friday. Do you say yes again?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, limits, parenting
  1067. A Year Without LyingFor the next twelve months you can't say anything you believe to be false. Not the big lies, those you'd manage. The 'no, it's lovely'. The 'I'm on my way'. The 'I'm fine'. Silence is allowed, but no cover stories, and nobody knows this has happened to you. Who does it cost you first?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, work · honesty, relationships, self
  1068. The Pill That Ends the CravingThere's a pill for the thing you do too much of. The drinking, the scrolling, the eating at midnight. One dose and the pull is gone for good. But it takes the pleasure with it. You'll never want it again and you'll never enjoy it again, and the evenings that were built around it will just be evenings. Do you take it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · failure, body · habits, pleasure, self
  1069. The Diary on the TableYour fifteen year old has left it open on the kitchen table and gone out. You can see your own name on the page. They've been off for weeks and won't say why, and you've been lying awake about it. Reading it takes ninety seconds and they'd never know. Do you read it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · family · family, trust, parenting
  1070. Sunday LunchYour grandmother says the ugly thing again, mildly, over the roast. She's eighty seven. Your cousin's kids are at the table. Everyone does the small laugh and passes the potatoes, and you've done the small laugh for twenty years because she won't change and it would spoil the afternoon. Do you say it out loud this time?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, courage, silence
  1071. Five YearsYour doctor is straightforward about it. Carry on as you are and you get about five good years fewer than you otherwise would. Nothing dramatic today, no scan to be scared of, just arithmetic. She writes down the two or three changes. You take the paper home and put it somewhere. What's stopping you?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · mortality, body, failure · health, mortality, habits
  1072. The Year You'd DeleteOne year of your memory can be taken out. Not the facts, you'd still know what happened and who you were with, but the feel of it goes. No flinch when the song comes on, no dream about it, nothing waiting for you at 4am. Everyone else remembers it fine. Which year, or none?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · past · solo · verdict · failure, identity · memory, pain, identity
  1073. The First DrinkYour closest friend quit drinking after losing their marriage. At your birthday dinner, they order a whisky and ask you not to make a scene. Everyone else carries on talking. Do you challenge them at the table?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · addiction, friendship, loyalty
  1074. The App That's Never WrongAn app has been right about everyone who used it, for years, with no exceptions. It tells you two things about your partner. They'll stay with you and be reasonably content. And there's someone else out there they'd have been happier with, much happier, if they'd met. You can show them the screen or close it. Do you tell them?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 5 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · love, honesty, happiness
  1075. The Five-Year ContractMarriage is no longer a lifelong commitment. The law changes tomorrow. All marriages now expire automatically after five years. To stay married, both of you have to go to a courthouse and sign a paper. If one of you stays home, the marriage ends. If your marriage expired tomorrow, would your partner show up to sign?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, failure · marriage, commitment, relationships
  1076. The Train HomeYour father is having minor surgery on Friday. He says there is no need to visit. You have missed enough work this year, and the train costs £160. Your sister texts: “He wants you there. He just won’t ask.” Do you go home?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, duty, absence
  1077. Sunday With GranYour grandmother thinks you still share her faith. She is 88 and tells everyone that praying with you is one of her last comforts. You no longer believe, but correcting her would hurt her. Do you keep praying with her?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, faith · faith, family, honesty
  1078. The Apology After Twenty YearsAt school, you joined in when a boy was mocked every day. You found him online. He seems happy and has never contacted you. An apology might help him, or it might ask him to carry your guilt again. Do you write to him?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure, identity · guilt, apology, school
  1079. The Broken VowYou cheat on your partner during a work trip. It happens once. You are overwhelmed with guilt. You know you will never do it again. The other person lives in another country. Your partner will never find out unless you tell them. Do you confess?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · sex, failure · infidelity, guilt, honesty
  1080. The Group ChatYou leave your phone unlocked on a table. Your partner picks it up to check the time. A notification pops up. It is a message from your closest friend. It says something cruel about your partner. Your partner reads it. Do you defend your friend or your partner?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · loyalty, partners, friends
  1081. Where It TurnedTwo people who work in different cities start messaging. Week one it's about work. By month four it's every night until one in the morning, and both of them stop mentioning it at home. They never meet, never touch, never say a word about love. Two years of this. When exactly did it become an affair?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · sex, friendship · sex, fidelity
  1082. No Falling OutThere was a friend you saw every week. No argument, no betrayal, nobody moved. The gaps just got longer. Then it was three years, and now if you passed them on the street you'd both be pleased and neither of you would suggest a drink. When did that friendship end, and is it over?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friendship, time
  1083. The Failed BusinessYour brother quit his job to start a restaurant. You lent him twenty thousand dollars to get it off the ground. It has been two years. The restaurant is failing. He asks you for another ten thousand to keep the doors open for one more month. Do you write the second cheque?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, money, failure
  1084. The NearlyThere's a job, a place, a person you didn't get. Someone offers to tell you exactly how close you came. Second out of four hundred, or last, or they never opened your file. Do you want the number?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · solo · story · failure, work · failure, knowledge
  1085. Still Say HomeYou haven't lived in your parents' house for years. You have your own place, your own bed, your own bins to put out. But when you get in the car on a Friday you say you're going home, and everyone knows which house you mean. When does that stop being home?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · home, family · home, language
  1086. Prayed ForYou find out an aunt has prayed for you by name every night for twenty years. She's never mentioned it. You don't believe a word of what she believes. She's kept it up through your divorce, your job, the illness. Has she been doing something for you or not?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · faith, family · faith, family
  1087. The Furthest CousinStart with your mum. Then her sister. Then that sister's kid. Then that kid's kid. Then the one you met once at a funeral in 2011 whose name you'd have to check. Somewhere along that line the word family stops being true and becomes a technicality. Who's the furthest-out relative you'd still get in the car for?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, belonging
  1088. Nobody Coming RoundYou have a house to yourself for a month. Nobody visiting, no deliveries, no video calls. No one will see the state of it or the state of you. What goes first: the bed made, the proper meals, the clothes with buttons?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · story · home, identity · home, solitude, habits
  1089. The Box in the LoftEverything you own ends up with someone who wasn't there for any of it. A ticket stub, a chipped bowl, a jumper you wore for eleven years. To them it's a bowl. To you it's a specific Sunday. Nothing about the objects changes; the stories just stop coming with them. Which of your things stops being what it is once you're not around to say why?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, home · objects, family, memory
  1090. Woke Up GuiltyYou dream you slept with someone. Not a stranger, someone you actually know. It's vivid, and in the dream you're pleased with yourself. You wake up next to your partner at six with the whole thing still in your mouth like a taste. Did anything happen?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · sex, identity · sex, dreams
  1091. The GhostwriterYou wrote a brilliant manuscript. A famous author with your politics reads it. They offer you one million dollars to publish it under their name. They will never reveal you wrote it. It will sell millions of copies. Under your own name, it will sell five hundred. Do you take the money and let them have the credit?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, money · credit, money, legacy
  1092. The Drunk ConfessionYour close friend gets drunk at a dinner party. They pull you aside and tell you a terrible secret about their marriage. They tell you their partner hits them. The next morning, they call you. They are sober. They say they made the whole thing up for attention. Do you stay friends with them?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, lies, trust
  1093. The Shed CashYou are cleaning out your uncle's shed after his funeral. Stuffed inside a rusty paint tin, you find twenty thousand pounds in crisp notes. Nobody else knows it is there. Your siblings are currently in the house, arguing over who gets his worthless car. Do you walk into the house and tell them?Thought Experiments · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · money, family, secrets
  1094. The Family RingYou own your great-grandmother’s ring. Your cousin believes it should have gone to her mother and has asked for it twice. Selling it would clear your credit card. Giving it away would end an old family grievance. Do you keep it, sell it, or give it to your cousin?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, family · inheritance, family, ownership
  1095. The Hidden DiagnosisYour parent goes to the doctor alone and gets a terminal diagnosis. They have six months to live. They decide not to tell you or anyone else in the family until the final week. They want their last months to be normal. Do you want them to keep that a secret from you?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · parents, death, secrets
  1096. The TrackerYour daughter gets her first car. She is driving alone at night. You have an app on your phone. It tracks her location. She does not know it is installed. You promised her you would never track her. Do you check the app when she is late coming home?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · parenting, trust, privacy
  1097. The Pills in the BathroomPain pills left from an operation help you sleep. Your doctor told you to stop weeks ago. You have hidden the last packet behind the towels because your partner would throw it away. Do you tell your partner tonight?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · body, failure, family · health, dependence, honesty
  1098. The Care FundYour parents are aging and have fifty thousand dollars left in savings. Your brother has a sudden medical emergency. He needs that amount for a treatment insurance will not cover. Your parents ask for your blessing to empty their account to pay for it. Do you tell them to do it?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, money, health
  1099. The Erased HabitThere is a harmless medical procedure. It takes ten minutes. It will permanently remove one habit from your partner. They will not notice it is gone. They will never know you arranged it. They will just stop doing that one thing forever. What trait do you remove?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, home · habits, control, partners
  1100. The Tooth You IgnoreA tooth has hurt for six months. The dentist may find nothing serious, or may tell you that you need work you cannot afford. You have £800 saved for the first holiday you have taken in years. Do you book the appointment before the holiday?Thought Experiments · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, body · health, avoidance, money
  1101. What took up most of your attention today?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 4 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · fact · work · daily, attention
  1102. What's the last thing you got obsessed with for no good reason?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity · curiosity, interests
  1103. Who did you want to be when you were ten?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · past · solo · verdict · identity · childhood, ambition
  1104. What did you get in trouble for most often as a kid?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · childhood, rules
  1105. What would you cook for me if I turned up hungry?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · process · future · relational · verdict · home · food, hosting
  1106. What do people get wrong about you?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 1 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · identity, perception
  1107. Who do you try too hard to impress?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · ego, relationships
  1108. When do you feel most useful?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · affect · present · solo · verdict · work, identity · purpose, work
  1109. What did you believe for years that turned out to be wrong?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · solo · story · faith, identity · beliefs
  1110. Which family story changes depending on who's telling it?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, stories
  1111. Who do you wish you had stayed in touch with?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · past · relational · verdict · friendship · relationships, regret
  1112. What compliment do you remember years later?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · memory, praise
  1113. Who have you outgrown but still love?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · love, change
  1114. Which goodbye do you wish you'd handled differently?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · mortality, friendship · regret, goodbyes
  1115. Who can still make you feel like a child?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · power, family
  1116. Who are you jealous of right now?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · jealousy, comparison
  1117. When did you last let someone down?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · guilt, relationships
  1118. Which dream have you stopped saying out loud?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · solo · verdict · failure, identity · dreams, loss
  1119. What are you still trying to prove, and who to?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, family · ambition, proving
  1120. What do you pretend not to know?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · failure, identity · secrets, truth
  1121. What did you hold back from telling me today?21 Questions · Level 1 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · fact · friendship, identity · us, honesty
  1122. How much of your loyalty to me is just not wanting to start over?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · loyalty, fear, us
  1123. What have I cost you that you still keep a tally of?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · money, failure · sacrifice, resentment
  1124. What do you pretend not to know about me so you don't have to do anything about it?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · avoidance, honesty
  1125. Am I the person you love most, or the one who was there?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · love, convenience
  1126. Which of your kids do you have to work at liking?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family · children
  1127. When you leave me, which of my flaws will you use to justify it to your friends?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · flaws, endings
  1128. What do you praise me for that you find pathetic?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · pretense, pity
  1129. What could you have been by now if you had never met me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · past · relational · story · work, failure, identity · regret, potential
  1130. Which of my apologies did you accept without believing a word of it?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · apologies, trust
  1131. When you picture life without me, what gets easier first?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · future · relational · feeling · home, failure · relief, future
  1132. Which of my failures have you enjoyed being right about?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · failure, spite
  1133. Which promise to me are you waiting for an excuse to break?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · failure · promises, betrayal
  1134. What do you blame me for that you chose yourself?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · blame, choice
  1135. What have you stopped wanting because you know I won't give it to you?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · desire, sacrifice
  1136. How much of your kindness to your father is pity?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family · father, pity
  1137. What have you decided your partner will never be capable of?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure · partner, judgment
  1138. Which ex could still talk you into leaving your life?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex, failure · exes, desire
  1139. What would you stop doing for me if you knew I would never leave?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · process · future · relational · verdict · home, failure · love, fear
  1140. Which ex did you use?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · exes, motive
  1141. How long have you known you're going to leave?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure · relationships, avoidance
  1142. What happens when you're alone that you'd edit before telling me?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · body, identity · shame, privacy
  1143. When did you decide I was never going to change?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · hope, verdict
  1144. What have I said to you that you've never let go of?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · grudge, words
  1145. Which parent do you hope dies first?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · parents, mortality
  1146. What does your father think you've forgiven him for?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family, failure · father, forgiveness
  1147. Which child gets the bigger share of what you leave?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, money, mortality · children, money
  1148. Whose version of your childhood is the lie, yours or your mother's?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · past · relational · story · family, identity · mother, memory
  1149. When did sex with your partner become a chore?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · partner, sex
  1150. Whose drinking are the rest of you ignoring?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, failure · friends, habits
  1151. What family argument is waiting for your parents to die before it begins?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · story · family, mortality, money · family, conflict, inheritance
  1152. If your children were strangers, which one would you dislike?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · children, personality, affection
  1153. Whose death in your family will feel like a relief?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · family, death, relief
  1154. How much money in the bank would give you the courage to leave?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · fact · money, failure · money, leaving
  1155. Which parent of mine do you punish me for acting like?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · family · family, projection, flaws
  1156. Who do you like more when their life is going badly?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · envy, friends
  1157. Who loves you less, your mother or your father?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · parents, love
  1158. Which child do you use to prove you are a good parent?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · children, parenthood
  1159. Which promise to your partner are you counting on never being tested?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · failure · partner, promises
  1160. Which of your partner’s failures makes you feel safer?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure · partner, failure
  1161. Which ex do you compare your partner to when you’re disappointed?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · sex, failure · partner, exes
  1162. Who in your family mistakes your duty for love?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · family, duty
  1163. Which of your parents would be relieved if you left me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · family · family, approval
  1164. How much uglier could I get before you stopped wanting me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · body, sex · attraction, appearance
  1165. Which fear of mine do you use to keep me close?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · process · present · relational · verdict · failure · fear, control
  1166. Which of my ambitions do you hope fails so I stay close?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · future · relational · verdict · work, failure · ambition, sabotage
  1167. Which insult from me do you believe?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · past · relational · verdict · failure, identity · insults, belief
  1168. When did you start managing me instead of trusting me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · trust, control
  1169. What are you waiting for me to do so you can stop feeling guilty?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · failure · guilt, excuse
  1170. Whose voice is it when you tell yourself you're lazy?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · present · solo · verdict · family, identity · shame, family
  1171. Which sibling got the better version of your parents?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · siblings, parents
  1172. Which story about your past do you know is a lie?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity, failure · lies, past, stories
  1173. Which parent ruined the other's life?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, marriage
  1174. Which ex dodged the biggest bullet by losing you?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure, sex · exes, regret
  1175. What do you blame your mother for that was never hers to fix?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · mother, blame
  1176. Which of your children do you expect to disappoint you most?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · family · children, expectations
  1177. Which relative’s apology would make you angrier than their silence?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family · relatives, anger
  1178. Who gets the anger you’re too scared to show at home?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · home, failure · anger, fear
  1179. Which ex could get you back with one phone call?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex · exes, desire
  1180. What did an ex say about you that you've never been able to argue with?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · exes, criticism
  1181. Which ex do you measure your partner against?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · sex, failure · exes, partner
  1182. Which ex would tell a room the worst true thing about you?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, sex · exes, reputation
  1183. Which ex are you still trying to prove something to?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · exes, pride
  1184. What are you punishing your partner for that was your own doing?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · story · failure · relationships, blame
  1185. Who told you the truth about yourself and never got forgiven for it?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friends, pride
  1186. What failure of yours do you still call bad luck?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure, work · failure, excuses
  1187. Whose death made your life easier?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · mortality, family · mortality, relief
  1188. Which ex did you punish for what someone else did?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, sex · exes, blame
  1189. Who would you drop first if your partner asked?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, partner
  1190. How much of your work ethic is fear of becoming your father?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · work, family · father, work
  1191. Who thinks you're dependable because they have never needed too much?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · reliability, care
  1192. Which apology have you rehearsed for years and never given?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · apology, avoidance
  1193. Who did you stop calling once your life got better?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, money · friends, distance
  1194. Whose bad advice did you take because you wanted someone else to blame?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · blame, advice, failure
  1195. What dream did you turn into a hobby so you wouldn't have to fail at it?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · work, failure · ambition, hobbies, failure
  1196. Who do you help because you need them to stay less successful than you?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · generosity, status
  1197. Who are you refusing to apologise to because being wronged suits you?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure · apology, resentment
  1198. Who do you keep close because their life makes yours look better?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, status
  1199. Who in your group are you glad you're doing better than?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, money · friends, status
  1200. Who are you waiting to watch fail?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, work · envy, friends
  1201. What did you decide by letting the time run out?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · cowardice, choices
  1202. Who do you think you're better than?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · contempt
  1203. Who are you being this good for?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · virtue, approval
  1204. Which part of your life would you be relieved to lose?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home, work · relief, duty
  1205. Which former partner found someone much better than you?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · exes, relationships
  1206. Who is going to die broke?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · verdict · money · money, future
  1207. Whose wedding felt like a mistake while you were there?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · weddings, judgment
  1208. Which flaw do you blame on your parents to avoid fixing it?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · family, failure · family, accountability
  1209. What insecurity in your partner do you feed to keep them around?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · sex, failure · relationships, manipulation
  1210. Which old friend knows too much for you to let go?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, secrets
  1211. Who in your group thinks they're closer to you than they are?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, closeness
  1212. Which ex do you blame for damage you caused yourself?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure · exes, blame
  1213. Which friend's success makes you feel furthest behind?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · friends, envy
  1214. Which friend mistakes your pity for affection?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, pity
  1215. Which former friend deserved a better ending from you?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · friends, regret
  1216. Which friend do you bring along because you look better next to them?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, vanity
  1217. Who do you keep away from your other friends?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, shame
  1218. Which couple you know should have broken up years ago?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · relationships, judgment
  1219. Who do you measure me against when we're fighting?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity · comparison, exes
  1220. If this ended tonight, which of us is fine first?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · identity · endings, attachment
  1221. What do I think I am good at that embarrasses you to watch?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure · delusion, embarrassment
  1222. What did your last partner give you that you have given up expecting from me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure · comparison, resignation
  1223. Which of your friends pities you for putting up with me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, pity
  1224. Which friendship do you think being with me has cost you?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, cost
  1225. When have you used my love as permission to be cruel?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · cruelty, love
  1226. What's the number that would make you leave me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · fact · money · price, leaving
  1227. How much of your day goes on managing my mood?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · fact · home · labour, temper
  1228. Who would you ring first the night I walked out?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship · loyalty, aftermath
  1229. If I died tonight, how long before you'd want someone else in that bed?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, sex · mortality, desire
  1230. What do I talk about that you've stopped hearing?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · home · attention, boredom
  1231. How long ago did you stop fancying me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · past · relational · verdict · sex · desire, time
  1232. Which fight did you win by being crueller than me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · cruelty, fighting
  1233. When I'm talking to other people, what do you brace for?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · embarrassment, watching
  1234. Who would take you back the day after I'm gone?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · sex · exes, replacement
  1235. Which of your kids bores you?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family · children, boredom
  1236. Which ex do you still hold your partner up against?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · sex, failure · exes, partner
  1237. If your mother weren't your mother, would you ever call her?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · mother, duty
  1238. When did you decide to stop trying and settle for your partner?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · partner, settling, regret
  1239. What does your partner love about you that you mostly perform?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · verdict · identity · partner, love
  1240. Which in-law do you fear your partner is becoming?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · partner, in-laws
  1241. Which parent would you rather have been raised by alone?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, childhood
  1242. What do you no longer expect from your partner?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · partner
  1243. After your parents are gone, which sibling do you expect to lose touch with?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · siblings
  1244. In your relationship, which of you is being put up with?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · partner
  1245. Twenty years from now, which of your children calls you least?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · verdict · family · children, future
  1246. Who did your parents stop expecting anything from?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · parents, disappointment
  1247. Which parent is going into a home the second they need help?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · parents, aging
  1248. Which grandparent did your family love more than they deserved?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · grandparents, family
  1249. What has your partner given up for you that you'd never give up for them?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · story · family · partner, sacrifice
  1250. Which parent did you stop introducing to people?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, shame
  1251. Which disaster did you let a friend walk into because you wanted to watch?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · malice, friendship
  1252. What do you hate in your mother because you see it in yourself?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · mother, hypocrisy
  1253. Who do you keep waiting so you can feel wanted?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · control, desire
  1254. Who do you describe as difficult because they don't admire you?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, work, friendship · ego, judgment
  1255. What do you pretend not to want because nobody offered it?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · solo · verdict · identity, failure · rejection, desire
  1256. Whose trust do you enjoy more than you deserve?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · trust, deceit
  1257. Which friend do you trust least with your good news?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, success
  1258. Who do you resent for accepting the help you offered?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · generosity, resentment
  1259. How much of your generosity is insurance against being left?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · feeling · identity, friendship · motive, generosity
  1260. What have you forgiven out loud and still charge them for?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · story · friendship, family · forgiveness, resentment
  1261. What do you let people believe about how you got what you have?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · story · money, work, identity · status, honesty
  1262. Which friend do you only call when you want to feel better about your own life?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, comparison, ego
  1263. Which of your principles do you abandon the second it gets expensive?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, identity · principles, money, hypocrisy
  1264. Who did you cut off because you were bored of them?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friendship, boredom, guilt
  1265. Which friend would you trust least alone with your partner?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, sex · friends, trust
  1266. Which ex are you most embarrassed to have loved?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, identity · exes, shame
  1267. Which old friend are you keeping out of guilt?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · old friends, guilt
  1268. Which friend's partner would you choose over the friend?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, attraction
  1269. Which ex did you keep chasing because being left felt like an insult?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, identity · exes, ego
  1270. Which belief do you defend because changing your mind would make the last ten years look wasted?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, failure · beliefs, pride
  1271. Whose success made you like them less?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · friendship, work · envy, friends
  1272. Which of your friendships would die if you stopped texting first?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, effort
  1273. Who thinks they're your first call in a crisis and isn't?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, trust
  1274. Who do you keep at texting distance so you never have to meet?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, avoidance
  1275. Which friend bores you now?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, boredom
  1276. Whose loyalty have you never paid back?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friends, debt
  1277. How much of your patience with your oldest friend is just habit?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · oldfriends, motive
  1278. Who would drop you if staying cost them anything?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, loyalty
  1279. Which friend's secret did you pass on?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friends, betrayal
  1280. Which of your friends makes more money than they deserve?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, friends
  1281. Whose partner ruins the evening for everyone else?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · story · friendship · friends, partners
  1282. Which friend got boring after they got happy?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, happiness
  1283. How much of your father’s advice is fear dressed up as wisdom?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, failure · father, fear
  1284. Which friendship survives only because you both remember the same year?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, nostalgia
  1285. Who owes you an explanation you'll never ask for?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · failure · friends, unfinished
  1286. Which friendship depends on having someone to hate together?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, gossip
  1287. Between your parents, who settled?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, marriage, pity
  1288. What are you hoping I'll talk you out of?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure · decisions, us
  1289. What do you do differently the week I'm away?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · fact · home · absence, relief
  1290. Whose grudge against you is fair?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · failure, friendship · friends, blame
  1291. Which ex was right about you?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · past · relational · verdict · failure, identity · exes
  1292. At what point did you start handling your father instead of talking to him?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family, mortality · father
  1293. Whose marriage is your worst nightmare?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · friends, relationships
  1294. What are you waiting for someone to die to say?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · feeling · mortality, family · death, secrets, family
  1295. What major decision did you let me think was my idea?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · home · control, lies, manipulation
  1296. Whose warning about your partner turned out to be right?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · partner, family
  1297. Which of your partner's dreams would make your life worse if it came true?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · family, identity · partner, ambition
  1298. Which fear do you call a principle?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, failure · values, fear
  1299. What do you let me believe I chose?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · family · control, choice
  1300. What did your brother or sister get away with that you're still counting?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · siblings, resentment
  1301. What do you call maturity that was really giving up?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · identity, failure · ambition, self
  1302. What does the third drink let you stop thinking about?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · fact · body, failure · drinking, avoidance
  1303. What recurring complaint of mine do you listen to while thinking it is my own fault?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure · blame, sympathy, complaining
  1304. Which ex would your family rather you'd stayed with?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family, sex · exes, family
  1305. Which of my parents do you think I'm turning into?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · family, dread
  1306. Which story of mine do you know is fake but you let me tell anyway?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · friendship · lies, acceptance
  1307. Which fight did you pick just so you could be alone for an hour?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · home · avoidance, conflict
  1308. What would you tell your partner's next person about them?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · story · failure · partner
  1309. Which family member is easier to love from a distance?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · family
  1310. Which ex would have been happier never meeting you?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · past · relational · verdict · failure · exes, regret
  1311. Which friendship ended because you got tired first?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · friends, endings
  1312. Which friend still thinks you're who you were at twenty-five?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · oldfriends, change
  1313. Which ex taught you something you're still using on people?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex · exes, learning
  1314. Which of your friends would you not choose if you met them today?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, inertia
  1315. Which argument do you let your partner win just so you can go to sleep?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · home · partner, conflict, cowardice
  1316. Who have you made the villain because missing them would hurt more?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · friendship, failure · loss, blame
  1317. You promised to visit someone and never went. Who?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friends, guilt
  1318. Whose wedding did you hope would get called off?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, family · family, weddings, judgment
  1319. Which principle of yours has never cost you anything?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, failure · values, hypocrisy
  1320. What would you lose if you got better?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · future · solo · verdict · identity, failure · self, identity
  1321. What did your mother say about me that you've never repeated?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, judgment
  1322. Which of my interests are you tired of pretending to care about?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · boredom, interest
  1323. Which friend's version of your falling-out is closer to the truth than yours?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · friends, conflict
  1324. Which parent do you already sound like when you lose your temper?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · solo · verdict · family · parents, anger
  1325. Which parent would have been happier without children?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, regret
  1326. What did you think you were getting that I turned out not to be?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · past · relational · story · failure, identity · disappointment
  1327. How much of your independence is just being impossible to live with?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, home · identity, relationships
  1328. Which ex’s family do you miss more than your own?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, sex · exes, family, comparison
  1329. What do you say about me when you want sympathy?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · identity, failure · reputation, complaint
  1330. How long do you let me embarrass myself before you intervene?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · friendship · shame, protection, public
  1331. What do you want that you'd be ashamed to be caught wanting?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · solo · verdict · identity · desire, shame
  1332. When my name comes up at your work, what do you leave out?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · work, identity · reputation, editing
  1333. When your partner goes away, what do you enjoy most?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · home · partner, relief
  1334. What mess of your father's are you dreading inheriting?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · future · relational · verdict · family, mortality · parents, legacy, dread
  1335. What have you decided to be bad at so nobody asks you for it?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · story · work, home · duty, avoidance
  1336. Which ex's family do you miss more than the ex?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · past · relational · verdict · family, sex · exes, family
  1337. Which of your exes do you make sound worse than they were?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · sex, failure · exes, story
  1338. What are you waiting for someone to die before you do?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · fact · mortality, family · family, waiting
  1339. What do you leave undone because you know I will cave first?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · fact · home · labour, manipulation
  1340. Who do you need to outlive before you can stop pretending?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · family, mortality · performance, family, death
  1341. Which ex were you relieved to be dumped by?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · exes, relief
  1342. Which former partner are you glad you didn't marry?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · exes, relief
  1343. What do you praise me for because you want me to keep doing it for you?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity · praise, motive
  1344. Who do you still visit with nothing left to say?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · family, friendship · family, habit
  1345. Which friend's problems have started to bore you?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, boredom
  1346. What do you admire in your mother that you would hate in your partner?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · family, sex · mother, partner
  1347. Who has mistaken your politeness for friendship?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, distance
  1348. Whose part in your success do you leave out of the story?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · work, failure · credit, success
  1349. What have you stopped telling me because I make it about me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · family, identity · silence, selfishness
  1350. Whose invitation would make you ditch plans with someone you love?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship · status, loyalty
  1351. When your partner cries, what do you feel first?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · feeling · family · partner, feelings
  1352. Out of everyone you dated, who had the worst parents?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, sex · exes, dating
  1353. What did you swear you'd never become, and already are?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · solo · verdict · identity, failure · identity, family
  1354. Which mistake do you keep calling bad luck?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · failure · blame, failure
  1355. Who paid for the ambition you call self-made?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · verdict · money, work · ambition, debt
  1356. Whose apology would disappoint you because you'd lose the right to hate them?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · story · failure, friendship · grudge, apology
  1357. Which friend of mine are you waiting for me to fall out with?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · fact · friendship · friends, judgment, patience
  1358. What did you do for me last week while resenting it?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, home · resentment, giving
  1359. When did your calm at home turn into not caring?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · solo · story · home, failure · home, indifference
  1360. What do you tell yourself about me to get to sleep after a fight?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · fact · family · conflict, privatethought
  1361. What do I do for you that you'd never do for me?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure · imbalance, effort
  1362. What salary would make you work for a company you call evil?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · fact · work, money · money, values
  1363. What topic did you stop listening to me explain years ago?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · friendship · attention, boredom
  1364. At what age did you give up trying to impress your mother?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · parents, childhood, defeat
  1365. Who would you not choose if you met them today?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · relationships, loyalty
  1366. What selfish habit do you dress up as a personality quirk?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · self, image
  1367. Who do you avoid telling good news to?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · friendship, family · friends, envy
  1368. Who do you look up online when you feel like a failure?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · friends, comparison
  1369. What year did you lose respect for your father?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · family, failure · father, respect, childhood
  1370. Of all your exes, who was too good for you?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · sex, failure · exes, worth
  1371. Between your parents, who would you choose to disappoint?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · parents, approval
  1372. Who thinks they hurt you more than they did?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · guilt, leverage
  1373. Which nice thing you do for me is guilt?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · failure · motive, guilt
  1374. What did your parents sacrifice that you wish they'd stop mentioning?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, debt
  1375. What will your children hold against you?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · family, failure · children, parenting
  1376. Who do you tell things your partner should hear first?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · partner, confidants
  1377. What did you forgive because leaving cost too much?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · money, failure · forgiveness, price
  1378. Who did you stop admiring without ever telling them?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, work · friends, respect
  1379. Which parent do you blame for what the other became?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, blame
  1380. What part of your face did your mother teach you to hate?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · fact · family, body · mother, appearance, insecurities
  1381. What sentence about yourself turns up at 4am?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · solo · fact · identity, failure · self, shame
  1382. What have I done that you'd never forgive in anyone else?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure · forgiveness, standards
  1383. How much of your honesty with me is revenge?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure · honesty, revenge
  1384. Whose name comes up in your arguments who has no business being there?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · family · partner, arguments
  1385. Whose plans do you agree to hoping they fall through?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · story · friendship · friends, plans
  1386. Between me and your closest friend, who would you trust with a truth that could ruin you?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · trust, friends
  1387. What lie do you let me get away with telling?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · lies, perception
  1388. Who did you let believe the breakup was mutual?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · sex, failure · exes, story
  1389. Whose parents did you like more than you liked them?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · family, friendship · exes, family
  1390. Between the two of us, who married down?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · comparison, status
  1391. What do you know about a friend's relationship that you've never said to their face?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · fact · friendship · friends, silence
  1392. Which relative did you stop defending?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · family · family, loyalty
  1393. Which ex made you look better than you were?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · exes, status
  1394. Who left the group chat and nobody chased them?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · fact · friendship · group, exclusion
  1395. Whose public image in your family is the biggest lie?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · story · family · family, reputation, fraud
  1396. Who did you take sides against without knowing the full story?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · friends, loyalty
  1397. Which ex still gets blamed for things that were your fault?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, sex · exes, blame
  1398. Which friend are you warmer to by text than in person?Unaskable · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, distance
  1399. At ten, which parent did you love more?Unaskable · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, childhood
  1400. Which old friend would you be relieved to never hear from again?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, relief
  1401. Who do you let underestimate you because it's easier than delivering?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · story · work · work, cowardice
  1402. How much of wanting me was that I wanted you first?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · sex, identity · desire, origins
  1403. How much of your silence after a fight is punishment?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · family · conflict, punishment
  1404. Who knows me better than you do?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · closeness, friends
  1405. When did you last enjoy watching me be wrong in front of people?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · contempt, status
  1406. Who keeps getting apologies from you instead of change?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · guilt, avoidance
  1407. Which friend do you get careless with because they always forgive it?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, cruelty
  1408. What do you need me to be bad at?Unaskable · Level 4 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · power, comparison
  1409. What's the thing you're failing at on purpose?Unaskable · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · solo · verdict · failure · self-sabotage
  1410. What do you hold back from telling me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · honesty, withholding
  1411. What do you need from me that you've never asked for?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · needs, asking
  1412. Tell me about a time I disappointed you and you said nothing.Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · disappointment, silence
  1413. What do you think I'm afraid you'll find out?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · fear, perception
  1414. What have you forgiven me for without telling me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · forgiveness, unsaid
  1415. When did you almost walk away from me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · leaving, doubt
  1416. What did knowing me cost you?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · cost, closeness
  1417. What do you need from me that you hate needing?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · need, dependence
  1418. When have you felt furthest from me while we were together?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · distance, loneliness
  1419. When have you wanted me to choose you?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · priority, longing
  1420. When have I made you uncomfortable without meaning to?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · discomfort, feedback
  1421. When have you felt closest to me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · closeness, memory
  1422. Which subject do we both steer around?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · avoidance, topics
  1423. When have you wanted more from me than I gave?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · wanting, shortfall
  1424. Do you think I love you more, or you me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · love, imbalance
  1425. What do you protect me from?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · protection, secrecy
  1426. Is there something you've been waiting for me to notice?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · noticing, unsaid
  1427. When do you feel like you have to perform for me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · story · identity, friendship · performance, pressure
  1428. Tell me something you assumed about me that turned out to be wrong.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · experience · past · relational · story · identity, friendship · assumptions
  1429. What do you envy about my life?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · envy, comparison
  1430. What do you forgive in me that you wouldn't forgive in anyone else?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · forgiveness, exception
  1431. What do you think I'll never understand about you?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · position · future · relational · verdict · identity · distance, knowing
  1432. Tell me how you talk about me when I'm not there.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · process · present · relational · story · friendship · loyalty, honesty
  1433. What do you rely on me for that you rarely admit?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · reliance, admission
  1434. If we drifted apart, what do you think would have caused it?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · distance, conflict
  1435. What's the first thing you'd warn a stranger about me?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · honesty, impressions
  1436. Tell me one thing about my face you've looked at more than once.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · body · looking, appearance
  1437. When did you last lie to me, even a small one?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · lying, honesty
  1438. Do you think I know how much I matter to you?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · affect · present · relational · feeling · friendship · affection, doubt
  1439. Do you compete with me? Over what?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · competition, rivalry
  1440. Tell me something you've wanted to ask me but thought was too much.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · curiosity, permission
  1441. What did you expect me to ask you by now?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · expectations, conversation
  1442. What do you wish I would ask you about more often?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · attention, interest
  1443. What did you notice about me first?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · first impressions, noticing
  1444. Guess what I was like at fifteen.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · story · identity · guessing, past
  1445. What do you think I'm proud of?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · pride, perception
  1446. What do I talk about more than I realise?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · habits, noticing
  1447. What do you think I'm bad at?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · weakness, perception
  1448. What do you think my family is like?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · family · family, guessing
  1449. Tell me what you thought this would be like before we sat down.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · expectations, tonight
  1450. What do I seem to care about that other people ignore?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · values, noticing
  1451. Have you ever pretended to agree with me? About what?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · conflict, pretending
  1452. What do you wish I'd stop apologising for?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · apology, patterns
  1453. Tell me about the last time you were relieved to see me.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · relief, presence
  1454. Tell me the closest you have come to walking away from me.Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · leaving, loyalty
  1455. What have you been afraid to ask me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · fear, unsaid
  1456. What do you think I need to hear from you tonight?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · need, honesty
  1457. Where do you think you've let me down?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · regret, guilt
  1458. When have you felt furthest from me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · distance, closeness
  1459. If this were our last conversation, what would you need to say?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship · mortality, unsaid
  1460. What do you hope I never find out?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · fact · failure, identity · secrets, shame
  1461. Guess the last thing that made me cry.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · crying, guessing
  1462. Tell me what you think makes me nervous.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · nerves, anxiety
  1463. Where do you think I'd go if I disappeared for a week?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · fact · home, identity · escape, guessing
  1464. Which one of us is more honest? Be honest.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · honesty, comparison
  1465. What do you think I do when I'm alone all evening?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · home, identity · solitude, guessing
  1466. What truth about us do you think I resist?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · truth, resistance
  1467. What do you think I expect from you but never say?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · pressure, expectations
  1468. Describe a moment when knowing me cost you something.Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · sacrifice, consequence
  1469. What do you miss about how we used to be?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · past · relational · verdict · friendship · change, nostalgia
  1470. Have I ever disappointed you more than you let on?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · disappointment, honesty
  1471. What do you think I would judge you for if I knew?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · judgment, secrets
  1472. What do you wish I had apologized for?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · apology, hurt
  1473. What do I do that makes you feel overlooked?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship · overlooked, attention
  1474. How do I make it hard for you to be honest with me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · honesty, friction
  1475. What part of my life do you feel shut out of?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · distance, exclusion
  1476. What do you think I misunderstand about you?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · perception, identity
  1477. What do you think I hide from you?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · secrets, trust
  1478. What have you been waiting for me to say?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · expectation, silence
  1479. Tell me something you know about me that I don't.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · perception, insight
  1480. What do you pretend to like about me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · pretense, honesty
  1481. What is the lie we tell each other the most?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · lies, habit
  1482. What would you want me to do if you fell apart in front of me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship, body · crisis, care
  1483. When did you first decide I was someone you could trust?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · trust, memory
  1484. When have you felt jealous of someone else’s place in my life?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · jealousy, importance
  1485. Is there a promise you want from me but cannot ask for?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · promise, commitment
  1486. Tell me what you want me to remember about you when you're gone.Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 2 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, identity · legacy, mortality
  1487. What do you need from me right now that I am not giving you?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · needs, support
  1488. Tell me one way I've changed since you met me.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · story · identity, friendship · change, observation
  1489. How am I different from the person you expected to meet?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · past · relational · verdict · identity · expectations, surprise
  1490. Where do you think you and I are most different?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · differences, perception
  1491. Give me a compliment you've thought of but haven't said.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · compliment, honesty
  1492. What quality of mine would you like a little more of yourself?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · admiration, character
  1493. How can you tell when I'm slightly nervous around you?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · fact · body, identity · nerves, body language
  1494. What about you do you think I noticed before anything else?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · past · relational · fact · body, identity · self-image, attention
  1495. Which choice I've made tonight has told you the most about me?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · choices, character
  1496. What kind of teenager do you think I was?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · past · relational · story · identity, family · past, youth
  1497. What's something I've said tonight you didn't believe?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · friendship · honesty, tonight
  1498. What have you done for me that I never found out about?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · care, hidden
  1499. Which of your friends dislikes me?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 1 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · fact · friendship · friends, judgment
  1500. What did you think of me the very first time we met?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · impression, memory
  1501. Which memory of us do you think we remember differently?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · memory, perspective
  1502. How have I made you worse?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, identity · influence, flaws
  1503. What kind of drunk do I seem like I would be?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity, body · alcohol, impressions
  1504. What did you decide about me early on and never change?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · past · relational · verdict · identity · judgment, first impressions
  1505. What do you think people get wrong about me on sight?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, body · impressions
  1506. Guess what kind of lie I would tell to get out of a party.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · social, honesty
  1507. Tell me what you've been rehearsing to say to me.Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · verdict · friendship · unsaid, confession
  1508. When did you decide to keep me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · commitment, choice
  1509. When did you last catch me performing for you?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · identity · performance, seeing
  1510. Tell me when you knew I was making a mistake and chose not to stop me.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · mistakes, restraint
  1511. What argument did you let me win just to end it?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · conflict, compromise
  1512. What do you let me get away with?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · failure · leniency, rules
  1513. Which of us would be better in a crisis?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · crisis, temperament
  1514. Tell me about a night you needed me and called someone else.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · need, betrayal
  1515. Tell me about a time you had to defend me to someone else.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · loyalty, outsiders
  1516. What mistake do you think I am making right now?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, work · advice, mistakes
  1517. What do you think I'd be like on a six-hour drive with you?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · story · identity, friendship · travel, guessing
  1518. What have you been letting me believe?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · identity · honesty, secrets
  1519. Tell me what you think I'm like to work with.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · work · work, impressions
  1520. Who has a worse temper, you or me?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · comparison, anger, emotion
  1521. What have you kept from me to keep me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure · secrets, fear
  1522. What did I do that made you respect me less?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · respect, judgment
  1523. What have you let me believe because correcting me felt cruel?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · belief, kindness
  1524. What does my love let you get away with?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · love, accountability
  1525. What do you think I'm like when I'm angry?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · anger, guessing
  1526. How can you tell when I disagree with you?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · identity · disagreement, body language
  1527. How would you introduce me to your oldest friend?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · introductions, friendship
  1528. What have you stopped inviting me to?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · present · relational · fact · friendship · distance, inclusion
  1529. Tell me about a time you tested me.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · trust, testing
  1530. What are you waiting for me to outgrow?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · growth, judgment
  1531. What did you forgive me for too fast?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · forgiveness, resentment
  1532. What do you think we're both pretending is fine?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure · avoidance, truth
  1533. Who in my life do you pretend to tolerate?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · others, honesty
  1534. Where do you think I'm lying to myself?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · truth, seeing
  1535. What can't you say because I will get too defensive?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure · defensiveness, communication
  1536. Have you ever tested me without telling me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · trust, control
  1537. What argument do you think we never finished?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · conflict, history
  1538. If we met for the first time tonight, would you pick me again?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · choice, us
  1539. Tell me the last thing I said that you're still carrying.Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · words, impact
  1540. When did you stop expecting something from me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · disappointment, distance
  1541. What have you stopped hoping will change about me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · acceptance, disappointment
  1542. What fiction do we keep up between us?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · denial, honesty
  1543. What apology of mine did you accept without meaning it?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · apology, truth
  1544. What weakness of mine do you cover for without telling me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · process · present · relational · story · failure · support, weakness
  1545. What do you think my face gives away fastest?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, body · expression, emotion
  1546. Do I look like I win arguments?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · conflict, personality, impression
  1547. Tell me something you've swallowed to keep things easy between us.Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · conflict, silence
  1548. Where do I give myself too much credit?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure, identity · ego, perception
  1549. What have you told someone else about me that you'd deny to my face?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · betrayal, honesty
  1550. What are you tired of pretending with me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · affect · present · relational · verdict · identity · pretending, fatigue
  1551. When have you tested me without telling me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · trust, testing
  1552. When did you last want to touch me but stopped yourself?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · body, sex, friendship · desire, restraint
  1553. When were you last relieved to see me leave?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · relief, distance
  1554. What do you leave out when you tell me about your day?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · work, home · editing
  1555. What do I take too seriously that you find funny?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · humor, perspective
  1556. Who in my life do you wish I saw less?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · jealousy, relationships
  1557. Which of my friends do you put up with for my sake?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friends, tolerance
  1558. What do you think is the fastest way to annoy me?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · personality, conflict, guess
  1559. Which of my opinions has made you think less of me?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · identity, failure · respect, opinions
  1560. Tell me an unspoken rule we have between us.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · position · present · relational · verdict · friendship · rules, dynamics
  1561. Do I seem like I hold grudges?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 2 · position · present · solo · verdict · failure, friendship · temperament, impressions
  1562. Who in my life do you wish I'd let go of?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, family · others, honesty
  1563. Which of my faults have you given up on?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure · acceptance, hope
  1564. Am I on the dance floor at a wedding, or watching the coats?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · position · present · solo · verdict · identity · social, events
  1565. Which of us texts the other first after tonight?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship · contact, comparison
  1566. What do you think I do in the first ten minutes after I get home?Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · position · present · solo · story · home, body · routine, guessing
  1567. Tell me about a habit of mine you've already picked up on.Undercurrent · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · experience · present · relational · fact · identity · habits, observation
  1568. What do you resent me for a little?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · feeling · friendship, failure · resentment
  1569. What mistake do you watch me make over and over?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · present · relational · verdict · failure · observation, flaws
  1570. When have you needed me and phoned someone else instead?Undercurrent · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship · trust, need
  1571. If we met for the first time this week, would you pick me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity · choice, doubt
  1572. What did you expect me to be better at by now?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · failure · expectations, disappointment
  1573. When have you pitied me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure · pity, respect
  1574. How do you think we will eventually fall out?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · position · future · relational · story · friendship, failure · conflict, future
  1575. Have you ever pitied me?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 2 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · feeling · failure · pity, vulnerability
  1576. If I never changed, could you stay?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · position · future · relational · verdict · failure · acceptance, future
  1577. What have you decided we will never talk about again?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · verdict · failure · silence, avoidance
  1578. When did my pain feel like an inconvenience to you?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · failure, friendship · pain, care
  1579. Tell me an apology you think I owe you.Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 5 · exposes 5 · revealed 4 · experience · past · relational · story · friendship, failure · apology, resentment
  1580. When am I unfair to you?Undercurrent · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · affect · present · relational · verdict · friendship · fairness, conflict
  1581. forgive the person who hurt you most or be forgiven by the person you hurt most?Would you rather forgive the person who hurt you most — or — be forgiven by the person you hurt most?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · forgiveness, guilt
  1582. die suddenly with everything unsaid or die slowly with time to say it all?Would you rather die suddenly with everything unsaid — or — die slowly with time to say it all?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality · mortality, regret
  1583. know your child will struggle but stay kind or know your child will succeed but turn cold?Would you rather know your child will struggle but stay kind — or — know your child will succeed but turn cold?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family · family, values
  1584. be loved by everyone who barely knows you or be loved by three people who know everything?Would you rather be loved by everyone who barely knows you — or — be loved by three people who know everything?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · love, identity
  1585. travel somewhere new every month or know one city better than anyone?Would you rather travel somewhere new every month — or — know one city better than anyone?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · travel, home
  1586. work four days a week for half the pay or work six days a week for double the pay?Would you rather work four days a week for half the pay — or — work six days a week for double the pay?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, money · work, money
  1587. have a job you love that nobody respects or have a job you tolerate that everyone admires?Would you rather have a job you love that nobody respects — or — have a job you tolerate that everyone admires?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, identity · work, status
  1588. live somewhere beautiful with no friends nearby or live somewhere dull with everyone you love?Would you rather live somewhere beautiful with no friends nearby — or — live somewhere dull with everyone you love?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · home, friendship · home, friendship
  1589. retire at forty with just enough money or retire at seventy with more than enough?Would you rather retire at forty with just enough money — or — retire at seventy with more than enough?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · future · solo · verdict · money, work · time, money
  1590. be famous to strangers and ignored by family or be unknown to strangers and adored at home?Would you rather be famous to strangers and ignored by family — or — be unknown to strangers and adored at home?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · fame, family
  1591. be able to speak every language or be able to play every instrument?Would you rather be able to speak every language — or — be able to play every instrument?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · skills, music
  1592. be told exactly how your parents remember you or tell them exactly how you remember them?Would you rather be told exactly how your parents remember you — or — tell them exactly how you remember them?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · family · family, memory
  1593. outlive everyone you love or be the first of them to go?Would you rather outlive everyone you love — or — be the first of them to go?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship, family · mortality, love
  1594. watch a recording of your worst moment or let one person you love watch it?Would you rather watch a recording of your worst moment — or — let one person you love watch it?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · failure, identity · shame, exposure
  1595. know which of your friendships is one-sided or never know and keep them all?Would you rather know which of your friendships is one-sided — or — never know and keep them all?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, truth
  1596. be the person your family calls in a crisis or be the person nobody worries about?Would you rather be the person your family calls in a crisis — or — be the person nobody worries about?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · family, role
  1597. be the one who leaves or be the one who is left?Would you rather be the one who leaves — or — be the one who is left?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · endings, love
  1598. know your parents' worst secret or know what they really think of you?Would you rather know your parents' worst secret — or — know what they really think of you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, truth
  1599. be needed by someone forever or be free of everyone's expectations?Would you rather be needed by someone forever — or — be free of everyone's expectations?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · duty, freedom
  1600. have your family proud of a lie or have them disappointed in the truth?Would you rather have your family proud of a lie — or — have them disappointed in the truth?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · identity, honesty
  1601. be remembered as difficult but honest or be remembered as easy but hollow?Would you rather be remembered as difficult but honest — or — be remembered as easy but hollow?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · identity, mortality · legacy, character
  1602. never be misunderstood again or never be lonely again?Would you rather never be misunderstood again — or — never be lonely again?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · loneliness, identity
  1603. keep every promise you have ever made or be released from all of them?Would you rather keep every promise you have ever made — or — be released from all of them?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · loyalty, promises
  1604. betray a friend to protect your family or betray your family to protect a friend?Would you rather betray a friend to protect your family — or — betray your family to protect a friend?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, friendship · loyalty, family
  1605. lose your memory of the last ten years or lose everyone else's memory of you from them?Would you rather lose your memory of the last ten years — or — lose everyone else's memory of you from them?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 3 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · past · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · memory, identity
  1606. see everyone you loved one last time or skip the goodbyes and spare them the grief?Would you rather see everyone you loved one last time — or — skip the goodbyes and spare them the grief?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship, family · death, grief
  1607. admit you betrayed someone who still trusts you or let them keep trusting the person you pretend to be?Would you rather admit you betrayed someone who still trusts you — or — let them keep trusting the person you pretend to be?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · betrayal, identity
  1608. care for an ageing parent who mistreated you or leave their care to people they never hurt?Would you rather care for an ageing parent who mistreated you — or — leave their care to people they never hurt?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family · family, duty
  1609. meet the parent who chose not to know you or keep imagining the parent they might have been?Would you rather meet the parent who chose not to know you — or — keep imagining the parent they might have been?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family · family, rejection
  1610. be the friend everyone calls in a crisis or be the friend everyone calls for a good night out?Would you rather be the friend everyone calls in a crisis — or — be the friend everyone calls for a good night out?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · friendship, role
  1611. be respected by people you don't like or be liked by people who don't take you seriously?Would you rather be respected by people you don't like — or — be liked by people who don't take you seriously?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · respect, belonging
  1612. have one great year then ten flat ones or have eleven pretty good years in a row?Would you rather have one great year then ten flat ones — or — have eleven pretty good years in a row?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · identity · ambition, contentment
  1613. be recognised in your field by twenty people who matter or be recognised in the street by strangers who don't?Would you rather be recognised in your field by twenty people who matter — or — be recognised in the street by strangers who don't?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, identity · fame, status
  1614. be praised in public for work you know was mediocre or be ignored for work you know was your best?Would you rather be praised in public for work you know was mediocre — or — be ignored for work you know was your best?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, failure, identity · pride, recognition
  1615. have a house with a perfect view or have a house with perfect neighbours?Would you rather have a house with a perfect view — or — have a house with perfect neighbours?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · home · home, taste
  1616. win every board game you play or win every argument about the rules?Would you rather win every board game you play — or — win every argument about the rules?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · games, competition
  1617. only ever listen to new music or only ever listen to music you already know?Would you rather only ever listen to new music — or — only ever listen to music you already know?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · music, taste
  1618. always get the joke first or always be the one who tells it?Would you rather always get the joke first — or — always be the one who tells it?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · humour, social
  1619. eat the best meal of your life alone or eat an average meal with your favourite people?Would you rather eat the best meal of your life alone — or — eat an average meal with your favourite people?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · food, company
  1620. be the person who plans the trip or be the person who just shows up?Would you rather be the person who plans the trip — or — be the person who just shows up?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · travel, personality
  1621. own a home you can never sell or rent forever and move whenever you want?Would you rather own a home you can never sell — or — rent forever and move whenever you want?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · home, money · home, freedom
  1622. be great at something you'll never be paid for or be paid well for something you're only okay at?Would you rather be great at something you'll never be paid for — or — be paid well for something you're only okay at?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, money, identity · talent, money
  1623. have a boss who pushes you and is often unfair or have a boss who leaves you alone and never notices?Would you rather have a boss who pushes you and is often unfair — or — have a boss who leaves you alone and never notices?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work · work, growth
  1624. lend a friend money and never mention it or borrow from a friend and pay back slowly?Would you rather lend a friend money and never mention it — or — borrow from a friend and pay back slowly?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, money · money, friendship
  1625. holiday alone somewhere incredible or holiday with everyone you love somewhere ordinary?Would you rather holiday alone somewhere incredible — or — holiday with everyone you love somewhere ordinary?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · travel, people
  1626. be the richest person in a poor town or be the poorest person in a rich one?Would you rather be the richest person in a poor town — or — be the poorest person in a rich one?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, identity · money, status
  1627. have a spare room you never use or have a spare month you never plan?Would you rather have a spare room you never use — or — have a spare month you never plan?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home, identity · space, time
  1628. take a perfect photo on the first try or tell a perfect story on the first try?Would you rather take a perfect photo on the first try — or — tell a perfect story on the first try?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · creativity, skills
  1629. never feel cold again or never feel tired again?Would you rather never feel cold again — or — never feel tired again?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body · body, comfort
  1630. have a spotless house you cannot relax in or have a messy house that feels warm?Would you rather have a spotless house you cannot relax in — or — have a messy house that feels warm?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · home, habits
  1631. eat the same good meal every day or eat something different every day, half of it bad?Would you rather eat the same good meal every day — or — eat something different every day, half of it bad?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body · food, risk
  1632. live in a small flat in the city centre or live in a big house an hour from everything?Would you rather live in a small flat in the city centre — or — live in a big house an hour from everything?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · home, city
  1633. never check your phone before noon or never work past six?Would you rather never check your phone before noon — or — never work past six?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work · habits, work
  1634. be given a house outright with no choice of where or be given the deposit and pick anywhere you like?Would you rather be given a house outright with no choice of where — or — be given the deposit and pick anywhere you like?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · money, home · home, control
  1635. see ten minutes into the future or see ten minutes into the past?Would you rather see ten minutes into the future — or — see ten minutes into the past?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · time, superpowers
  1636. plan every weekend a month ahead or decide every weekend on Saturday morning?Would you rather plan every weekend a month ahead — or — decide every weekend on Saturday morning?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · planning, spontaneity
  1637. pay for a cleaner and stop eating out or clean everything yourself and eat out weekly?Would you rather pay for a cleaner and stop eating out — or — clean everything yourself and eat out weekly?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, home · chores, money
  1638. be your parents' favourite and know it or be their least favourite and never know?Would you rather be your parents' favourite and know it — or — be their least favourite and never know?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, favouritism
  1639. discover you were wrong about someone you hate or discover you were wrong about someone you trust?Would you rather discover you were wrong about someone you hate — or — discover you were wrong about someone you trust?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · trust, judgement
  1640. learn your family has hidden something from you or learn your family has hidden you from someone?Would you rather learn your family has hidden something from you — or — learn your family has hidden you from someone?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · family, identity · family, secrets
  1641. never have to work again but never be praised for anything or work hard forever and be admired for all of it?Would you rather never have to work again but never be praised for anything — or — work hard forever and be admired for all of it?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · work, identity · work, recognition
  1642. have a career that peaks early or have a career that peaks in your sixties?Would you rather have a career that peaks early — or — have a career that peaks in your sixties?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · work · career, timing
  1643. win gold in an obscure sport or come last in a famous race?Would you rather win gold in an obscure sport — or — come last in a famous race?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · failure, identity · sports, glory
  1644. be the best player on a losing team or be the worst player on a winning team?Would you rather be the best player on a losing team — or — be the worst player on a winning team?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · failure, identity · success, ego
  1645. have a dog that understands you or have a cat that respects you?Would you rather have a dog that understands you — or — have a cat that respects you?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 2 · escape 4 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · animals, taste
  1646. tell a friend their partner is cheating or keep quiet until your friend asks directly?Would you rather tell a friend their partner is cheating — or — keep quiet until your friend asks directly?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, sex · loyalty, truth
  1647. lose the ability to make new friends or lose contact with everyone you already know?Would you rather lose the ability to make new friends — or — lose contact with everyone you already know?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, loss
  1648. give ten years of your life to a stranger or give one year to someone you love?Would you rather give ten years of your life to a stranger — or — give one year to someone you love?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, friendship · sacrifice, mortality
  1649. leave behind money for the people you love or leave behind letters for the people you love?Would you rather leave behind money for the people you love — or — leave behind letters for the people you love?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · money, mortality, family · legacy, death
  1650. live a life that helps many strangers or live a life that saves one person close to you?Would you rather live a life that helps many strangers — or — live a life that saves one person close to you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family · purpose, sacrifice
  1651. lose every memory of someone you loved or keep every memory but never speak their name again?Would you rather lose every memory of someone you loved — or — keep every memory but never speak their name again?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, failure · memory, grief
  1652. take your dream job far from everyone you love or keep your life close to them and wonder?Would you rather take your dream job far from everyone you love — or — keep your life close to them and wonder?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · work, family · ambition, family
  1653. be remembered as kinder than you were or be remembered as crueler than you were?Would you rather be remembered as kinder than you were — or — be remembered as crueler than you were?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · identity, mortality · legacy, reputation
  1654. have your best work credited to someone else or have someone else's best work credited to you?Would you rather have your best work credited to someone else — or — have someone else's best work credited to you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · work, failure · pride, recognition
  1655. stay in a life that is fine forever or risk it all on something that might ruin you?Would you rather stay in a life that is fine forever — or — risk it all on something that might ruin you?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · solo · verdict · failure, identity · risk, regret
  1656. apologise to someone who will never accept it or be apologised to by someone who does not mean it?Would you rather apologise to someone who will never accept it — or — be apologised to by someone who does not mean it?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 2 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · apology, closure
  1657. hear what people will say at your funeral or choose what people will say at your funeral?Would you rather hear what people will say at your funeral — or — choose what people will say at your funeral?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, identity · mortality, legacy
  1658. have everyone think you are wealthy when you are broke or have everyone think you are broke when you are wealthy?Would you rather have everyone think you are wealthy when you are broke — or — have everyone think you are broke when you are wealthy?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, identity · money, reputation
  1659. pay more whenever it saves you time or spend more time whenever it saves you money?Would you rather pay more whenever it saves you time — or — spend more time whenever it saves you money?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money · time, money
  1660. host every family celebration at your place or travel to every family celebration elsewhere?Would you rather host every family celebration at your place — or — travel to every family celebration elsewhere?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, home · family, hospitality
  1661. study something fascinating and leave with debt or study something practical and leave debt-free?Would you rather study something fascinating and leave with debt — or — study something practical and leave debt-free?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · work, money · education, money
  1662. answer every message as soon as it arrives or leave your phone unchecked until evening?Would you rather answer every message as soon as it arrives — or — leave your phone unchecked until evening?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · process · present · relational · verdict · work · phone, attention
  1663. tell a friend their outfit looks bad or let a friend leave feeling confident?Would you rather tell a friend their outfit looks bad — or — let a friend leave feeling confident?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · honesty, friendship
  1664. be famous for something silly or be unknown for something brilliant?Would you rather be famous for something silly — or — be unknown for something brilliant?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · identity, work · fame, legacy
  1665. remember every person's name or remember every joke you've heard?Would you rather remember every person's name — or — remember every joke you've heard?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · memory, social
  1666. wake fully rested after four hours or fall asleep the instant you choose?Would you rather wake fully rested after four hours — or — fall asleep the instant you choose?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body · sleep, habits
  1667. read any book in an hour or write any email in a minute?Would you rather read any book in an hour — or — write any email in a minute?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work · reading, productivity
  1668. receive a surprise party or plan your own perfect party?Would you rather receive a surprise party — or — plan your own perfect party?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · parties, personality
  1669. never have to sleep again or never have to eat again?Would you rather never have to sleep again — or — never have to eat again?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · future · solo · verdict · body · superpowers, habits
  1670. always look great but feel slightly uncomfortable or always feel perfectly comfortable but look messy?Would you rather always look great but feel slightly uncomfortable — or — always feel perfectly comfortable but look messy?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body, identity · fashion, comfort
  1671. have a dog that lives as long as you do or have a cat that can talk to you?Would you rather have a dog that lives as long as you do — or — have a cat that can talk to you?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality · pets, animals
  1672. give up coffee for the rest of your life or give up alcohol for the rest of your life?Would you rather give up coffee for the rest of your life — or — give up alcohol for the rest of your life?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body · food, drink
  1673. always arrive twenty minutes early or always arrive ten minutes late?Would you rather always arrive twenty minutes early — or — always arrive ten minutes late?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · time, habits
  1674. always know when someone is lying to you or always have the right thing to say?Would you rather always know when someone is lying to you — or — always have the right thing to say?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, identity · social, skills
  1675. do dull work beside people you like or do work you love alone from anywhere?Would you rather do dull work beside people you like — or — do work you love alone from anywhere?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, friendship · work, company
  1676. confront a close friend who is slowly pulling away or let the friendship fade out without ever asking why?Would you rather confront a close friend who is slowly pulling away — or — let the friendship fade out without ever asking why?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · process · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · friendship, conflict, loss
  1677. live above a great bakery or live above a good pub?Would you rather live above a great bakery — or — live above a good pub?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · home, food
  1678. holiday somewhere hot with no wifi or holiday somewhere rainy with everything working?Would you rather holiday somewhere hot with no wifi — or — holiday somewhere rainy with everything working?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · travel, weather
  1679. have perfect weather every weekend or have perfect sleep every weeknight?Would you rather have perfect weather every weekend — or — have perfect sleep every weeknight?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body, work · weather, sleep
  1680. always be the driver or always be the passenger?Would you rather always be the driver — or — always be the passenger?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · driving, control
  1681. stand near the stage with poor sound or stand at the back with perfect sound?Would you rather stand near the stage with poor sound — or — stand at the back with perfect sound?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · concerts, music
  1682. work with someone brilliant who lets you down or work with someone average who never does?Would you rather work with someone brilliant who lets you down — or — work with someone average who never does?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, failure · work, trust
  1683. have your name on the building or have the money in your account?Would you rather have your name on the building — or — have the money in your account?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 5 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money, identity · money, legacy
  1684. understand what animals are saying or understand what babies are saying?Would you rather understand what animals are saying — or — understand what babies are saying?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · powers, animals
  1685. have beautiful handwriting or have a beautiful singing voice?Would you rather have beautiful handwriting — or — have a beautiful singing voice?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body, identity · talent
  1686. keep your ambition and never feel satisfied or lose your ambition and feel content?Would you rather keep your ambition and never feel satisfied — or — lose your ambition and feel content?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, identity, failure · ambition, contentment
  1687. have great taste and little talent or have great talent and no taste?Would you rather have great taste and little talent — or — have great talent and no taste?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity, work · taste, talent
  1688. read your ex's version of your relationship or have them read yours?Would you rather read your ex's version of your relationship — or — have them read yours?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · failure, identity · exes, truth
  1689. earn less than your friends but enjoy your work or earn more than your friends but envy their work?Would you rather earn less than your friends but enjoy your work — or — earn more than your friends but envy their work?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money, friendship · money, envy
  1690. inherit your father's temper or inherit your mother's silence?Would you rather inherit your father's temper — or — inherit your mother's silence?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, identity · parents, inheritance
  1691. apologise when you know you are right or refuse to apologise and lose a friend?Would you rather apologise when you know you are right — or — refuse to apologise and lose a friend?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · pride, conflict, friendship
  1692. always know when someone is bored or always know when someone is flirting?Would you rather always know when someone is bored — or — always know when someone is flirting?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex, friendship · superpowers, social
  1693. be a brilliant host or be a brilliant guest?Would you rather be a brilliant host — or — be a brilliant guest?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · home · parties, friends
  1694. meet the band and miss the show or see the show and never meet them?Would you rather meet the band and miss the show — or — see the show and never meet them?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity · music, fandom
  1695. know your partner settled for you or know your partner once planned to leave you?Would you rather know your partner settled for you — or — know your partner once planned to leave you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · love, trust
  1696. be the family member who keeps the peace or be the one who says the true thing?Would you rather be the family member who keeps the peace — or — be the one who says the true thing?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · family, honesty
  1697. keep the friendship and never mention the thing or say it once and lose them?Would you rather keep the friendship and never mention the thing — or — say it once and lose them?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, truth
  1698. know how much your parents gave up for you or never know what it cost them?Would you rather know how much your parents gave up for you — or — never know what it cost them?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · family · parents, debt
  1699. work for someone smarter than you or work for someone kinder than you?Would you rather work for someone smarter than you — or — work for someone kinder than you?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work · work, relationships
  1700. let your friends read your search history or let your family read your bank statements?Would you rather let your friends read your search history — or — let your family read your bank statements?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship, family · privacy, money
  1701. share every success with a jealous friend or share every failure with a smug friend?Would you rather share every success with a jealous friend — or — share every failure with a smug friend?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship, failure · friendship, success
  1702. have someone who cooks for you or have someone who drives you everywhere?Would you rather have someone who cooks for you — or — have someone who drives you everywhere?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · luxury, daily
  1703. have a garden that needs work every day or have a balcony with one good chair?Would you rather have a garden that needs work every day — or — have a balcony with one good chair?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · home, outdoors
  1704. always be the one who picks up the bill or never be the one who picks up the bill?Would you rather always be the one who picks up the bill — or — never be the one who picks up the bill?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, friends
  1705. be told why a friend cut you off or have them come back and never explain?Would you rather be told why a friend cut you off — or — have them come back and never explain?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship
  1706. share your search history with your boss or share your bank statements with your boss?Would you rather share your search history with your boss — or — share your bank statements with your boss?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, money, sex · privacy, work, money
  1707. be buried beside the person you loved most or be buried beside the person who loved you most?Would you rather be buried beside the person you loved most — or — be buried beside the person who loved you most?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 5 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, sex · love, mortality
  1708. learn your partner slept with your best friend or learn your partner is in love with your best friend?Would you rather learn your partner slept with your best friend — or — learn your partner is in love with your best friend?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex, friendship, failure · infidelity, love, friendship
  1709. be underestimated by everyone you meet or be overestimated by everyone you meet?Would you rather be underestimated by everyone you meet — or — be overestimated by everyone you meet?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · position · present · relational · verdict · identity, failure · reputation
  1710. buy the best version of cheap things or buy the worst version of expensive things?Would you rather buy the best version of cheap things — or — buy the worst version of expensive things?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · money · money, status
  1711. have a famous parent or have a famous child?Would you rather have a famous parent — or — have a famous child?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, identity · family, fame
  1712. be great at karaoke or be great at pool?Would you rather be great at karaoke — or — be great at pool?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · nights out, skills
  1713. have one honest year with your sibling or have twenty polite ones?Would you rather have one honest year with your sibling — or — have twenty polite ones?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family · siblings, honesty
  1714. choose a day too early for your dying pet or choose a day too late for your dying pet?Would you rather choose a day too early for your dying pet — or — choose a day too late for your dying pet?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 3 · emo 5 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality · grief, mercy
  1715. be fired for doing the right thing or be promoted for doing the wrong thing?Would you rather be fired for doing the right thing — or — be promoted for doing the wrong thing?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · work, failure · work, ethics
  1716. burn your diaries before you die or leave your diaries for your children to read?Would you rather burn your diaries before you die — or — leave your diaries for your children to read?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family · legacy, secrets, privacy
  1717. sell a gift you treasure to cover rent or keep a gift you treasure and borrow money?Would you rather sell a gift you treasure to cover rent — or — keep a gift you treasure and borrow money?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money · money, sentiment
  1718. defend your child when you know they are the bully or side with the school and let your child be expelled?Would you rather defend your child when you know they are the bully — or — side with the school and let your child be expelled?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 3 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, failure · parenting, ethics, loyalty
  1719. arrive twenty minutes early or arrive five minutes late?Would you rather arrive twenty minutes early — or — arrive five minutes late?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · time, habits
  1720. tell the truth that sends your sibling to prison or tell a lie that leaves their victim without justice?Would you rather tell the truth that sends your sibling to prison — or — tell a lie that leaves their victim without justice?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 4 · conv 5 · int 5 · emo 4 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 5 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family · loyalty, justice
  1721. be someone's whole world or be one of many good things in their life?Would you rather be someone's whole world — or — be one of many good things in their life?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · love, need
  1722. be your partner's second choice and know it or be their first choice and never believe it?Would you rather be your partner's second choice and know it — or — be their first choice and never believe it?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · love, doubt
  1723. be famous in one small town or be slightly known everywhere?Would you rather be famous in one small town — or — be slightly known everywhere?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · identity · fame, identity
  1724. never feel hungover again or never feel jet-lagged again?Would you rather never feel hungover again — or — never feel jet-lagged again?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body · body, travel
  1725. have your boss read your texts or have your parents read your texts?Would you rather have your boss read your texts — or — have your parents read your texts?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, family, sex · privacy, work, family
  1726. talk to anyone on a long train or be left alone the whole way?Would you rather talk to anyone on a long train — or — be left alone the whole way?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · strangers, travel
  1727. know how to fix any car engine or know how to build wooden furniture?Would you rather know how to fix any car engine — or — know how to build wooden furniture?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work · skills, diy
  1728. always pay the bill but never receive thanks or never pay the bill but always be reminded?Would you rather always pay the bill but never receive thanks — or — never pay the bill but always be reminded?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, social
  1729. win a prestigious award with no money or win a cash prize you must keep secret?Would you rather win a prestigious award with no money — or — win a cash prize you must keep secret?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · money, work · success, money
  1730. fly free forever, always the middle seat or stay free forever, always a bad hotel?Would you rather fly free forever, always the middle seat — or — stay free forever, always a bad hotel?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body · travel
  1731. inherit money from a relative you disliked or inherit nothing and owe them nothing?Would you rather inherit money from a relative you disliked — or — inherit nothing and owe them nothing?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, family · family, money
  1732. see your face at seventy or see your kitchen at seventy?Would you rather see your face at seventy — or — see your kitchen at seventy?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · solo · verdict · mortality, home, body · future, body
  1733. regret having children or regret never having children?Would you rather regret having children — or — regret never having children?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 5 · depth 5 · voice 5 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · family, identity · family, regret
  1734. be someone's second choice for life or be someone's first choice for five years?Would you rather be someone's second choice for life — or — be someone's first choice for five years?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship · love, commitment
  1735. split a family windfall equally or keep the share the will gives you?Would you rather split a family windfall equally — or — keep the share the will gives you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, money · family, money
  1736. have a job you finish by three, bored stiff or have a job you love that is never finished?Would you rather have a job you finish by three, bored stiff — or — have a job you love that is never finished?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, identity · work
  1737. be the one everyone rings when something breaks or be the one nobody thinks to ring?Would you rather be the one everyone rings when something breaks — or — be the one nobody thinks to ring?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · family, help
  1738. keep the habit that is slowly killing you or quit it and lose the only thing that calms you?Would you rather keep the habit that is slowly killing you — or — quit it and lose the only thing that calms you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body, mortality · addiction
  1739. hear your child describe you to their therapist or hear your parent describe you to theirs?Would you rather hear your child describe you to their therapist — or — hear your parent describe you to theirs?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · family, failure · family, parenthood
  1740. be the person people tell everything to or be the person people protect from everything?Would you rather be the person people tell everything to — or — be the person people protect from everything?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 2 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · trust, friendship
  1741. work somewhere chaotic that you believe in or work somewhere smooth that means nothing to you?Would you rather work somewhere chaotic that you believe in — or — work somewhere smooth that means nothing to you?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work, faith · work, meaning
  1742. spend your savings helping someone start over or keep your savings for your own bad year?Would you rather spend your savings helping someone start over — or — keep your savings for your own bad year?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 5 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, friendship · money, generosity
  1743. be caught in a lie by your boss or be caught in a lie by your best friend?Would you rather be caught in a lie by your boss — or — be caught in a lie by your best friend?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, friendship, failure · truth, relationships
  1744. work alongside your best friend or work for your best friend?Would you rather work alongside your best friend — or — work for your best friend?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, friendship · friendship, work
  1745. hire a skilled stranger or hire a friend who needs the chance?Would you rather hire a skilled stranger — or — hire a friend who needs the chance?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · work, friendship · work, loyalty
  1746. have a friend who replies three days later, always or have a friend who turns up with no warning?Would you rather have a friend who replies three days later, always — or — have a friend who turns up with no warning?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship
  1747. be brilliant at small talk or never have to make small talk?Would you rather be brilliant at small talk — or — never have to make small talk?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 2 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity, friendship · social
  1748. learn the truth about your dead parent's marriage or keep the story they told you?Would you rather learn the truth about your dead parent's marriage — or — keep the story they told you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 1 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · past · relational · verdict · family · family, secrets
  1749. hold your grudge for the rest of your life or drop it and lose the story that explains you?Would you rather hold your grudge for the rest of your life — or — drop it and lose the story that explains you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 4 · revealed 4 · priority · present · solo · verdict · failure, identity · grudge, identity
  1750. lose your desire for your partner or lose your partner's desire for you?Would you rather lose your desire for your partner — or — lose your partner's desire for you?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · sex · love, desire
  1751. follow bad advice from someone successful or follow good advice from someone failing?Would you rather follow bad advice from someone successful — or — follow good advice from someone failing?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 2 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, work · success, advice, status
  1752. let your parents pay for your wedding or pay for your own wedding?Would you rather let your parents pay for your wedding — or — pay for your own wedding?Would You Rather · Level 2 · exposure 2 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 3 · depth 3 · voice 5 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · present · relational · verdict · money, family · family, money, independence
  1753. risk defending a guilty friend or risk abandoning an innocent friend?Would you rather risk defending a guilty friend — or — risk abandoning an innocent friend?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 4 · emo 4 · depth 4 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · friendship · friendship, loyalty
  1754. be the strong one at every funeral or be the one who falls apart in front of everyone?Would you rather be the strong one at every funeral — or — be the one who falls apart in front of everyone?Would You Rather · Level 3 · exposure 3 · conv 4 · int 3 · emo 4 · depth 3 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 3 · revealed 4 · priority · future · relational · verdict · mortality, family · grief, family
  1755. burn a fancy dinner you cooked for friends or drop a perfect sandwich you made for yourself?Would you rather burn a fancy dinner you cooked for friends — or — drop a perfect sandwich you made for yourself?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 3 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 5 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · failure, friendship · food, mistakes
  1756. stop time for one minute a day or rewind time by one minute a day?Would you rather stop time for one minute a day — or — rewind time by one minute a day?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · superpowers, time
  1757. eat only food you cooked yourself or eat only food someone else cooked?Would you rather eat only food you cooked yourself — or — eat only food someone else cooked?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · home · food, control
  1758. never be bored again or never be rushed again?Would you rather never be bored again — or — never be rushed again?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 3 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · body · time, pace
  1759. sleep in a treehouse during a thunderstorm or sleep in a lighthouse during heavy fog?Would you rather sleep in a treehouse during a thunderstorm — or — sleep in a lighthouse during heavy fog?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 1 · voice 4 · escape 4 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · future · solo · verdict · home · sleep, adventure
  1760. spend a year without your phone or spend a year without leaving your country?Would you rather spend a year without your phone — or — spend a year without leaving your country?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · future · solo · verdict · home · technology, travel
  1761. be mistaken for a touring musician or be mistaken for a travelling magician?Would you rather be mistaken for a touring musician — or — be mistaken for a travelling magician?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 5 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · identity, attention
  1762. stay in a luxury hotel by an airport or stay in a basic tent on a beach?Would you rather stay in a luxury hotel by an airport — or — stay in a basic tent on a beach?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 1 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 4 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · solo · verdict · home · travel, preference
  1763. know how every magic trick works or be able to do one perfect trick?Would you rather know how every magic trick works — or — be able to do one perfect trick?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 2 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 1 · voice 3 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 1 · revealed 2 · priority · present · relational · verdict · entertainment, skills
  1764. be able to grow any plant or be able to fix anything broken?Would you rather be able to grow any plant — or — be able to fix anything broken?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 1 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 2 · specific 4 · exposes 1 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · work · skills, home
  1765. go to a theme park by yourself or go to a music festival by yourself?Would you rather go to a theme park by yourself — or — go to a music festival by yourself?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 2 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 4 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · solo · verdict · identity, friendship · solitary, habits
  1766. have a nickname stick forever or only ever be called your full name?Would you rather have a nickname stick forever — or — only ever be called your full name?Would You Rather · Level 1 · exposure 1 · conv 3 · int 1 · emo 2 · depth 2 · voice 4 · escape 3 · specific 3 · exposes 2 · revealed 3 · priority · present · relational · verdict · identity · names, identity